me and my boyfriend has been getting into arguements alot and i dont want us to break up because thats been my baby everysince january 27,2006 and i dont want another female to get him we are in high school too and i dont want us to split up. what should i do? we havent been having sex he knows i am waiting for marriage..........
2006-07-20 06:08:13 · 6 answers · asked by holdinitdown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I teach high schoolers, and I can't tell you how many of them stay in relationships because they honestly believe they will be together forever. But you seem intelligent enough to realize that isn't true. It's hard to think of him moving on with someone else, but if you are unhappy, you shouldn't stay in the relationship just to keep him from being with someone else.
And since you bring up the sex topic... my guess is you've been fighting about having sex. He wants it, you don't feel ready. If you are not ready, don't do it. Even if that means he is going to go have sex with another girl, let him go. I've read hundreds of essays from female students about how much they regret having sex because it's not enough to hold on to a relationship, anyways. And so many of them end up pregnant. I don't want you to end up like them.
2006-07-20 06:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kristina S 3 · 15⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt say take a break from each other because u know what happened to Ross & Rachel, but sit down & talk find out the root o f these arguments, putting emphasis on the fact that u dont want to break up
2006-07-20 13:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out the reason you're arguing and resolve the problem, and if it's because of a lack of sex, then move on, you deserve to have someone to love you until you're completely ready.
2006-07-20 13:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by mamacita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're unhappy and you don't want to change it for the sole reason that you put about six months into, which isn't really that much time. But for some reason you're asking for advice or something you've already decided. Bravo.
2006-07-20 13:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still in high school and looking for marriage? does HE look for marriage? maybe he's got other plans and designs (college, job, future) how would you fit in all this? re-consider your thoughts and make the right decision.
2006-07-20 13:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy way is : "Apologizes"..... it will not make you smaller....and will solve all the problems....
2006-07-20 13:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋