Okay we are both looking to move and we both need roommates we have joked around about living together does this mean its on his mind? How do you go about asking if hes interested?
2006-07-20 05:58:39 · 15 answers · asked by luv@1st site 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXX yes, it's on his mind. Talk to him. Maybe you both can go apartment hunting. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-20 06:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you two have been together and how far you think the relationship has progressed. If you are thinking of getting a place with him as roommates, I wouldn't recommend it. That says the relationship hasn't gone far enough for you two to be living together. And if things don't work out, do you really want to have an ex as a roommate? One the other hand, you are thinking of moving in as a couple, then really no one here can tell you if your relationship is ready for that. But if you think your relationship is ready for it, then tell your guy that you have been thinkin about taking another step forward in your relationship and the timing is good for it.
2006-07-20 06:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am hoping you've said mutually with her the way you've felt about the topic matters for the reason that that is her first journey faraway from abode, she probably under no circumstances knew perfect etiquette. She thinks it is her position (faraway from mum and dad) and she or he's free to do what she needs. you may opt to say to her some thing like, "This residing association isn't understanding." supply her the criteria that you revealed the following about the thoughtless issues that she has stated and done. Say some thing like, "i only won't be able to stay like this anymore and that i imagine you may want to bypass again with your mum and dad and that i will pay your percentage of the lease."
2016-10-15 00:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by tenuta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self, Do you really want to move in with your boyfriend? And does he want to move in with you?
Honestly, i recommend that i you are going to move in with some one, its best to get married first.
"THINK FUTURE"
Lets just say you move in with this boy, you get pregnant, he decides that he does not want to be with you any more; even if they say "i will never leave you, that is not necessarily true" how are you going to take care of this baby all on your own, yes you could do is collect child support and no that is not welfare. but if you marry this person and he decides to leave you, you could collect alimony, child support and get half of every thing he has except his bills. think about it, but its your life you do what ever you think its best.
2006-07-20 06:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he joked about it, then maybe he really wants to and I would just go ahead and tell him that you don't want to room with someone that you don't know. You'd rather have the peace of mind to room with him.
2006-07-20 06:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's on his mind. Tell him that it's been on your mind, and ask what he thinks about it. Worst he can say is that he's not ready yet for that kind of commitment.
2006-07-20 06:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't straight out ask him then you two aren't ready to be living together.
2006-07-20 06:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf was moving,and I needed help financially,so,I just asked him,and he moved in,and here we are,lol
2006-07-20 06:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if you're willing to take the relationship to the next level as in closer to marriage.
2006-07-20 06:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just mention it. If he loves you, it won't freak him out. Explain that you won't be offended if he wants to wait some more.
2006-07-20 06:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋