The friend claims and my boyfriend claims that they are just friends, but he keeps some of there conversation private to me saying i don't need to know and it really bothers me. It should be me and him private; not her and him. It just drives me crazy sometimes and i would just be hurt if i found out he cheated on me expesciallly with her.
2006-07-20 05:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by IM Myself 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well all you can do is express that you would prefer him not to talk to her. You can't act ghetto and be confrontative. You need to just play it cool, and be the bigger person. If there's true love b/t you and your guy, there's no reason to be threatened. But hell yes, you do state directly to him, "Honey, she did something very hurtful to me, and I wish that you understand that it's very hurtful to see you be so friendly to someone that hurt me." Don't say anything else, and leave it alone. Don't expect him to be mean to her. He may even say "hello, what's up?" But don't get upset and defensive. But if he purposely goes out of his way to be in her company, dump him.
2006-07-20 05:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 4 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Girl are you out of your mind!!If my man as we speak even fixed his body to do such an act I would give him the worst beat down of his life because that is straight up disrespect to you as his women.How would he like it if he had a home boy he didn't like and you held numerous convo's with him knowing that he don't like the dude and you tell him to bud out ya 2 convo because its private.Girl friend what you need to do is put your foot down,may bey down on his neck or in the crack of his disrespectful azz and let him know don't ever disrespect you by talkin to some chick you don't rock wit anymore because what he's doing is giving her the upper hand to say **** about you,laughing and s#!t in your face like s#!t is funny.That ain't cute. Where i come from you get killed for **** like that cause us N.Y girls don't play that s#!t.I would get Mad big mofos to jump his azz with the quickness.I'm vexed Right now and it ain't even me girl.I feel you!!I would leave his azz right there talking to her since they have so much to talk about together.And i would get somebody to wop her azz too that BIOTCH!!
2006-07-20 06:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by "Just Liv" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would so tell my ex friend to leave my man alone..but if they get along well then theres nothing left to do because I dont want to lose my papi
Angie
2006-07-20 05:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hav been through this same situation.
What u need to make clear to your BF is that u
don't agree with his contact with his X.
Whether it is platanic or not.
And that he needs to respect u.
So he needs to make a choice.
U or X.
2006-07-20 05:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should respect you enough to not talk to her. Explain why you guys aren't friends anymore and you should be his priority, not her.
2006-07-20 05:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault. You shouldn't date friends. That's what you were asking for when you started.
2006-07-20 05:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORCE HIM TO TELL U WHAT IS GOING ON...SOMETIMES LOVE IS BLIND...AND WE DON'T ACCEPT A PERSON'S MISTAKES
2006-07-20 05:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u dont like that and maybe he will stop
2006-07-20 05:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by crash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him,....
2006-07-20 05:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋