A co-worker/mutal friend set us up. He called and we really hit it off the first date, and he immediately asked when he could see me again. (Meanwhile, I had heard rumors that he was talking about me with his friends and that he thinks I'm a "goddess".) Two days later he called me again and we set up a second date for the following week. Our second date was great.
I figured he felt the same way (that's the vibe I was getting) and was eagerly awaiting another call from him, but I didn't hear from him for two days after our date. So I called him.
I tried to keep the conversation short, feeling as though I was interrupting (he was out with friends), and I asked if he'd like to hang out again. He took time and said "yeah sure" but no definite plans were made. I'm not even sure who is supposed to call who (although that night, he said he was going to call me but I beat him to it...)
Anyways, I don't plan to call him back. I feel like I ruined my chances by calling him. Did I?
2006-07-20 05:41:38 · 10 answers · asked by wishinghoping24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you ruined your chances at all. He's a guy and I know its hard for us women to understand them sometimes and I think you should wait and see if he calls. If he claims if was so great then he will call. Just be patient and see what happens.
2006-07-20 05:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by IM Myself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that you made a mistake, but more likely something else is happening.
Men do sometimes have busy lives and we have other things going on. I sometimes will get a womans number but not call her for a week because I'm busy. Also, as the guy it is your responsibility to plan the date. It can take a little time for you to figure out what the two of you should do.
At this point, don't blame yourself. Just give him some more time to call you. The last thing most guys want is a woman who is difficult, so when/if he does call you don't show that your irritated with him.
In the meanwhile, keep yourself open to meeting someone new.
2006-07-20 05:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by steven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not a mistake, but don't call him back, he knows you want to hang out and if he doesn't call you then that's his loss. Don't hang around waiting for his call, that's too needy. Men hate needy women. Don't harass him by calling him again, just give him some time and see if he calls. In the mean time, dress up and go out with your girl pals, and have a great time, get on with your life, you may meet someone you like even better!
2006-07-20 06:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya....i have to say.....he's not that interested in you. even after two dates, with a good vibe, maybe something just didn't click for him. and he's not going to tell you he WON'T call. all guys say they'll call. so that means nothing really.
its ok, we all learn from our mistakes. no matter what though, you can't call a guy until you establish taht boyfriend/girlfriend status. otherwise it could be a week, two days, and they will still think your needy and essentially easy. sucks but that's what all guys are kind of brought up to believe.
i would focus my energy on meeting someone else who is really into you and can't wait to call you. seriously.
2006-07-20 06:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by reemsh_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd likely make positive he observed the e book contained in the trash can. If a husband has no longer some thing better than to spotlight his spouse's enormous thighs then she ought to no longer savor one of those present. better purely the cardboard or no present in any respect.
2016-12-02 00:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever call the guy in the beginning - let him call you!!!! for some reason, even if they like you alot if you are calling them alot then they think you are needy, I wouldn't call him again, if he really likes you then he will call.....he said he would call you twice but you beat him to it...you shouldn't have called...sometimes guys like to wait a few days so they don't seem needy...if he doesn't call shrug it off - obviously there is somebody better out there for you..
good luck
2006-07-20 05:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't ruin your chances by calling.........it's possible he wasn't going to call and quite frankly, you deserve at least that. Leave the ball in his court...if he wants to see you he will call. Do not call him again. (By the way, they all say that after you call - that they were going to call you.) In the meantime, don't sit waiting by the phone.....go have fun with other people........
2006-07-20 05:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you ruined your chances, just see what happens.
2006-07-20 05:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so.just be patient...otherwise he will take u for granted if u call again and again.he might think that u need him badly...wait for a while
2006-07-20 05:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Neha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you did was call him. I doubt that would make him loose his intrest in you. but if it did, he's not worth it.
2006-07-20 05:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋