...after meeting in a club/pub/etc, have sex with the person you'd just met?
No, I haven't or wouldn't, just curious!
2006-07-20 05:24:38 · 26 answers · asked by Sweetcakes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes have done, but most times its not as enjoyable as going on a date with someone and then having sex or being in a loving relationship and getting to know each other.
2006-07-20 06:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Evo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes...done twice.
I have on other occasions snogged a couple of men and we have gone back to my flat which is shared with other girls and done everything but have sex....and looking back it was not the nicest thing I could have done...as often ..once the alcohol had worn off ...my senses came back to me ...and I threw them out of my bed and out off my flat...in the early hours of the morning.
I know 30 odd years ago...having a kiss and a cuddle would be ok...but times have changed. There were points when I did panic and go to a Gum clinic to get a H.I.V test done. I remember one bloke kicking off as he was up for the occasion ...and I insisted on condoms...he wasn't impressed ...needless to say I didn't see him again.
It is a very powerful thing (or at least it feels that way ) when you start to get male attention. When I was younger any attention was good attention...and if I was pleasing the bloke ...that is all that seemed to matter...BUT as I have got older I have realized that my wants and needs are important too. I think the internet has revolutionized the way we can relate to men. If you get on the right dating sites...there are some decent blokes I think out there and you can take your time to get to know them and their personality ...before you meet them. Of course you have to ensure your not meeting a weirdo...so good reputable sites where you pay a small fee is the way to go I say.
Sex is not Love. Love takes years and years (years to build) ....I have a lot more respect for myself now...and being in LOVE for me now would encompass a lot more than just attention from a bloke saying 'your gorgeous, you’re beautiful; you have a lovely bum (which I do!)'....any bloke can say that...I have noticed they are not that fussy with women.
Above all I do have it in my head now...that irrespective of a bloke being in my life or not ....I want to have enough money and be self-sufficient enough to look after myself. I believe that the right sort of person will give you plenty of time and may not likely find him totally off his head or with his mates in a night club!
2006-07-20 12:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean I haven't but I am not going to rule it out. I think that as long as I am protected and all that then why not. I have not done it ever in 27 years, but hey you never know! That has never really been my cup of tea but after a long string of dead end relationships and meeting nothing but losers I am ready to taste a bunch of different teas.
2006-07-20 12:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. I'd like to know them for a few weeks first. Then again my clubbing days ended when I left college.
2006-07-20 12:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would very much depend on the individual person. So far I had the experience only three times, and it is not my usual habit. But if one encounters an exceptional person, anything is possible.
2006-07-20 13:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sean F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no take some time to get to each other make sure he or she is the right one for you.also dont do it without protection.also dont do it in the butty,a friend of mine bled for 3 days after she did it,she said it hurt like hell and she would never do it again.how old r u.email me at silent310cpt@yahoo.com
2006-07-20 12:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course I would
wanna meet, maybe I could change your mind
2006-07-20 12:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by RomanGOD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, that's not even something to ask. You say you havent done it, stick to it. Dont do it.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 12:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by diamant152001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't, unless I've known him for awhile ......Wake up ppl, AIDS is real!
2006-07-20 12:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why we go to clubs etc isnt it, to pull and get laid
2006-07-20 13:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by stevie1885 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋