why do men ?

Question

why do men always think about our bodys and what we look like on the outside instead of the in side were it counts the most?

Answer 1

Sweety, you are right most men do, I'll think the majority does. but there are exceptions. And the exceptions are what you should be looking for, someone who sees farther than what everyone sees, who understands what noone else can understand. Remember, dont settle for less!
Good luck!

Answer 2

I could give you a long, drawn-out answer that uses sociology, psychology, and anthropology... but the bottom line is that:
1) men are usually encouraged to look at the outside first (women do the same thing but are also socialized to make character judgments)
2)biologically speaking, women have to invest more when it comes to sex... you carry the kids. So it's in a female's best interest to choose a good father who will help with child-rearing
3)Males (not just humans) may be hard-wired to seek out the most attractive mates... hot mate will make hot kids... hot kids will likely have more kids... therefore, if I want my genes to live on, I should have a hot mate to make hot kids so they can pass on my genes.

That's the short answer but there is a lot more.

Answer 3

I wish I knew the answer myself.
Guys will say they are initially attracted to your physical self, and then they try to say that after that it's all about personality.
That is complete BULL-****.
Trust me, looking physically good and slim will ALWAYS be most important for a guy, whether he admits it or not, because guys base their worth on how hot the girl is that is with him. It's lame but it's true. They want other guys to see that they were able to get a hot woman, despite the fact they may not be as physically good-looking as she is. It's like they are stating, "ya I may not be hot but my woman is so that makes me even hotter".
Funny thing is they are hypocrites when it comes to wanting their women to always look physically good, because they think it's ok to let themselves go and get a "beer gut" and they think that we are ok with that, too. Like we have to be perfect all the time for them, and it's ok if they let themselves go physically.
What a crock of complete BULL-**** that is.
All men are the same, at least in my experience they have been in the end. And it always comes out one way or the other.

Answer 4

That person or people are not for you because there are still men who think a woman's body is a temple, their personally counts, religion, and value a woman's opinion, A true woman's worth is not her body's outside, but her life belonging to God.

Answer 5

I always say this. Girls are continually complaining that their boyfriend keeps looking at their breasts and treir legs. Well if you don't want them to see them just Do NOT SHOW them. If you go out dressed like a slut, then you will get what you deserve. If you are dressed in a proper way and you don't wear much make up the guy you will find will be more interested about the real you and your character.

Answer 6

Many women have the same outlook. Mostly because at first, it's the appearance, that attracts someone, and the personality comes along after. Only way it's different, is if you start falling for a friend, who you never looked at like that, before, but because you've gotten to know them.

Answer 7

Because the Media has put alot of time into convincing men that Women are objects and that we should treat them as such. I myself am not attracted to women who show off their bodies, because that just means that they are insecure and don't have anything intelligent to offer a man therefore they show their assets. Don't worry their are plenty of men who want someone to talk to and not someone to just have sex with. Remember that eventually we grow old and become fat and ugly, so eventually every man wants a woman for her mind.

Answer 8

Men are all about the physical attraction in the beginning stages, soon they learn though that looks fade and your left with an ugly person inside and out.

Answer 9

Because that's what women are made for. Remember people above all we still are animals and we are made to attract one another to conceive. All females in any species have some outward vice that attracts the male. And just like the female black widow spider women real us in and get us right where they want us as soon as we say "I do" then we are subject to a slow painful death.

Answer 10

Your assertion is untrue. Generally speaking, younger men and boys are more superficial, but as men mature, they become more interested in intellect.

Sometimes, "midlife crisis" will affect a man's maturity and behaviour, so don't count on it to last forever.