me and my boyfriend live with his brother he has a company and we help him out with it, i work in his office, wich the office is in the house, i have a two year old, that i watch mean while, and im 6 months preg. his brother is alwasys bitching at me, about stupid ****. he treas me like if im his wife or something. he wants me to clean his room wash his clothes etc,, and he says that hes paying me for working for him. i try to do the best but when im not in my office im either with my son or cleaning the house or trying to rest.i stress out alot because of him and i dont want to go into labor cause of this. what can i do?me and my man cannot ove out for the simple fact that we dont have the money too.
2006-07-20 05:16:55 · 3 answers · asked by junkinmytrunk 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I would have a "company meeting" maybe with your boyfriend first and then to include all of you. Make sure that you set the guidelines of what is expected out of ALL of you. There is no reason he should act like this unless he thinks that you have already discussed this situation and that is what you all agreed to. Either way sit down and lay it out to where everyone is clear. Also have you all thought about getting a different job if this won't work to have the money to move out?
2006-07-20 05:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he is not your brother in law if you did not marry his brother. When males and females shack up instead of getting married these are the difficult challenges they face. You are identifying this person as a relative and he treats you like crap. If your b/f was a real man, you would be able to talk to him about it. He would have a plan to get you guys into your own place.
Once you've decided that you are big and bad enough to have babies out of wedlock, then you are sending a message to your parents that you don't need them any longer. It's not your mom's responsibility, it's yours. Your boyfriend may or may not come to your aid, but he is the only other responsible in this scenario.
We pray for the children who must endure and suffer through our poor choices.
2006-07-20 12:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set some limits. Have your "man" tell his brother to back off. Establish your job duties for which he pays you and both of you come to an agreement. Agree on exactly what you two will do around the house to help out, since you live with him.
And kick him in the balls if he's a jerk about any of it. I guarantee it will change his attitude.
2006-07-20 12:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋