I have had 3 relationships. The first one was love....he was my first kiss, first slowdance, first person I made out with, and all of that stuff. It lasted for a year and a half. He dumped me for another girl, we got back together, then I dumped him becuase he changed for the worse. Then I went out with this other guy. That just made me even more confussed and I dumped him 4 times. I gave myself a brake from dating, but soon I fell for someone else. We went out for 2 days. He dumped me becuase of complications and what not. I asked him back out 4 more times, but got rejected. I have now been single for 1 month. I really want a boyfriend and I know for a fact that I am desperate. However, I met this guy, my best friend's next door neighbor. As soon as I met him I started to like him. He isn't that cute, but there is something about him that makes my heart skip a beat. My best friend says he is annoying and is not my type, but I don't listen. Do I like this person for real?
2006-07-20 05:10:26 · 12 answers · asked by emilystar25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he makes you feel the way you say he does then yeah you like him. It is not your mate that were talking about, maybe she does find him annoying and he isn't her type but it sounds like he is yours.A good personality makes men so much more sexy than a nice face. You have only been single a month, you are not desperate. I was single for 3 years out of choice
2006-07-20 05:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Emmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact that I am desperate. However, I met this guy, my best friend's next door neighbor. As soon as I met him I started to like him. He isn't that cute, but there is something about him that makes my heart skip a beat.
heart skip a beat.
heart skip a beat.
If he likes you and makes you feel happy then go for it,
You could meet someone like me
Who will make your heart skip a beat.
When the paramedics get there they will call it a heart attack
So go on have a try ,
Then if it works out
You can invite me to the Wedding,
To tell your Husband ,
This is why I married you ,I was scared I would bump into HIM
SO GO FOR IT
NOW
2006-07-20 12:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are really young. A lot of people like to be single because of the freedom. If you are still a teen then don't try to tie yourself down. Don't depend on someone else to make you happy. Be happy with you. If not, you will always feel like you NEED to be with some one even if they are not right for you. By the way, don't ask a guy back more than once. That looks really desperate
2006-07-20 12:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by sleeplessdreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already said that you know for a fact that you're just desperate! It's lust! I've had my heart broken by my first love, too, and maybe you compare all of your relationships to your first love. I did that for a long time and nothing ever worked out for me.
I think that you are in love with the idea of being in love. But here's a little secret: Love is natural. You can't make it happen. It will come to you. You will probably get hurt a lot, but that is to be expected in any relationship. Good luck. Don't try to rush things.
2006-07-20 12:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are desperate. I have a friend who is in the same situation; she has to have a boyfriend all the time. I told her to ignore all boys until she could honestly say and feel that she didn't need them so much. I think that you should do the same, or you could end up being hurt.
2006-07-20 12:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be too desperate when you are looking for a new relationship. I have fallen in that same mess i regret it a lot. From all undergoings, i strongly believe that there is a time for every purpose. When your time comes, it's needless to rush.
2006-07-20 12:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by baboh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be their friend to start with.
It's not fair to him if you start going out with him if you don't really like him because you will only break up with him and hurt his feelings.
So just be friends and see what happens.
Take care
2006-07-20 12:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused? We all are! Get yourself a new boyfriend at least once a month as they all stink after about three weeks.
2006-07-20 12:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by SouthOckendon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she said he's not your type...hmm..sounds like those other guys weren't your type..and maybe this one is.....
I thought I had the "type" I was looking for..and figured it wasn't working...and changed my way of thinking..and met this great guy and a heck of a lot happier!
so..hey..go for it :)
2006-07-20 12:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does your friend know what your heart feels. Give it a go!!!
2006-07-20 12:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋