hi i love this girl too much.. we even went out for 1 1/2 year but her parents came to know and she stopped talking.. now after 1 year of not talking to each other we met again and started talking.. i told her i still love her.. now she stopped taking my calls.. its hurting like helll.. help!!!
2006-07-20 05:00:35 · 24 answers · asked by rajivdingra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX the only thing you can do is find someone that will love you. You can't wish for her to love you, or make someone love you, or buy someones love. Not genuine love. Stop calling her, stalking is a crime, let her go, I know it hurt like hell but why cry for someone who doesn't care if you're crying. . Good luck hun XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-20 05:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your probably not going to like this but you just have to let go. It hurts, I know, we've all been through that. And you know what? Truthfully you may never be able to heal. But it shouldn't stop you from trying. If you still want to have ANY kind of friendship with this girl then you need to see her(in person) and say,
"I sorry,[insert name]. I didnt mean to surprise or upset you when I told you how i feel. I understand if you dont want to be friends or even talk to me. But I want to befriends with you" and improvise from that point
If all you want is an actul relationship from her then its proably not going to happen. I dont know the details with her parents and all but she does have a reason, and you should respect that reason and not try.
Try hanging out with your friends or another girl. Write a poem. A story. Punch your pillow. Make cookies(chocolate chip perferably) and send them my way.
hope it helps
2006-07-20 12:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by xrequiemofdeathx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, it will be. You have to ask a higher power to give you the sight to see what's supposed to be in your future. If she's it, you'll get a sign. If she's not, you have to ask for the strength to cope with your feelings now, and for the strength to move on and love again. It may seem like the end of the world, but only time can heal wounds. This is experience-limited but experience nonetheless-talking.
2006-07-20 12:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by G D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will stop hurting once you move on and realize she only wants to be friends. I don't believe you are able to be just a friend, so you need to concentrate on moving on. What would be the point of loving someone when that love is not returned? It would just continue the pain and hopefully you really don't want constant pain in your life.
2006-07-20 12:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a little scared by your declaration of love. It may just be that she is afraid you expect something from her she isn't ready or able to give at this time. She probably wanted to be friends for awhile but now she is thinking that it is not possible because when she let you back in you went straight to relationship again. I don't know what happened with her parents last time but it sounds like they haven't changed their views and she may not be ready to stand up to them quite yet and she feels like your pushing her to.
2006-07-20 12:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol If I Were U I Would Get Over It And Get A New Gurl Or Guy W/E And Thats All I Have To Say
2006-07-20 12:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a circumstance like this, she really loves you too, but is too afraid to tell you because she doesn't want to get hurt. You need to not give up and fight for her heart!!
lol
Just kidding, she really doesn't like you anymore...and she REALLY doesn't love you anymore. Any attempts to pursue things will turn her off even more.
Mourn for a few days, and then work on you. Work out, work on your school/job...join clubs/activities/sports...make yourself hot...and you'll find new friends and girls to distract you
2006-07-20 12:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no help for you. You're going to have to find a new girl and start over. Dwelling on the past will always be painful.
2006-07-20 12:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not silly, but there's not much you can do. If she stopped taking your calls either she is not interested or too wrapped up in her parents to see you. Either way, you must move on.
2006-07-20 12:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. It really sucks, but you've just got to move on. As the old saying goes "there's more fish in the sea." Good luck!
2006-07-20 12:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋