I've been wid my boyf for 7 months and he always tells me that he doesn't find anyone else attractive but this is really startin to annoy me. whenever we go out he always checks someone out like the other day at the bus stop when a lass with big boobs walked past. Even my mum noticed, if i looked at another lad he would kill me. when i confront him he always denies it, what can i do?
2006-07-20 04:56:31 · 18 answers · asked by natashaatter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the best thing is to just trust that your boyfriend is telling you the truth, its natural for him to look at other girls..i mean come on he is a GUY, but as long as it doesnt go further than that, dont worry about it. If in the 7 months you've been together he hasnt given you a reason not trust him, why are you worrying now?!
2006-07-20 05:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by summergirl77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to understand that most ppl do look at other attractive members of the opposite sex. There's no harm in window shopping so long as you ain't buying!! What's unfair is that he's doing it and you can't do what comes natural,as well, because he's jealous. Sort something out that's fair play ..sauce for the goose should be sauce for the gander.. He has to understand that relationships are a two way street and you should both agree to the rules about how to keep the relationship on track.
2006-07-20 05:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to look and the only reason he lies is because he doesn't want to make you upset. Finding someone else attractive is normal. It is finding someone else that you think you want to be with that causes the problem. If he is totally checking other people out while you are with him it is very disrespectful. I would let him know that. Of course he will deny it but at least he knows you know and if he really cares about what you think he will stop it in the future.
2006-07-20 05:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be fustrating seeing him looking at girls, but he may not even be aware that he's doing it. But if he knows it's upsetting you, he could make more of an effort to stop it. All men do it to some degree(and women) but if he does find anyone else attractive, it's probable a fleeting thought that he doesn't even remember. Men usually deny things, because we go on and on about it, if they don't. As long as he's not doing it to make you jealous , try not to react. I'm sure he thinks your very attractive, he's with you isn't he? ( Do you not ever have a sneaky peak at men? Be happy and don't let it ruin your relationship.
2006-07-20 05:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is not very respectful of you. First of all-he's 'checking out' other girls as it is...but he's doing it right in front of you...that is just rude. And then of course, there's the double standard and denial.
It will only get worse.
How serious are the two of you? I think I would move on if I were dating someone like him.
2006-07-20 05:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by redfernkitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, now you've got your answer. Start by praising any guy you see passing in the street. Always say this person is very handsome. OOOOOOOh his figures manifest that he is very good in bed. I wish i will have this type of fellow one day in my life. I am not yet fortunate to see whom i love. With all this sayings, i believe that something different will happen.
2006-07-20 05:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by baboh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys would be guys. i am referring to myself as well. the best advise i can give u is not to do a single thing. i notice through ur question i found wat wrong with my relationship. u got a bf who gets jealous pretty easily and he seem to put ur relationship in his mind thus he keeps says he did not find someone else attractive.
Frankly speaking even if he did and told u about it, u won't like it either so u might as well tell him to speak freely. don worry or feel annoyed too much bad for health.
2006-07-20 05:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Headache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it - every guy does it.
Stop being so insecure about it....or find a loser bf who never looks because he's happy with you because you're perfect.
The more you nag, the less attractive you become, and the more attractive other girls are.
My advice...just have fun with it. Don't take it personal. Say "yeah...she's hot...but will she suck your c#$#$ as hard as I can?" or something playful, ya know?
2006-07-20 05:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its disrespectful for guys to look at other girls when they'r with their girlfriends or wives, there is not much u can do bout it except tell him how it makes u feel when he does and it. And hopes that he respects u enough quit his habit-ask him how he feels if u looked at other guys when he is around? Then see what he says.
2006-07-20 05:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really cant do anything. Just try and point it out at that exact second and if he denies it then next time you see a sexy guy do the same thing. look but then deny!
2006-07-20 05:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋