he died when i was 13 i want him to be here for me im now 24
2006-07-20 04:56:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Aww, you poor thing. I really can feel for you, my dad isn't dead but he left when I was 4 and hasn't contacted me since. I know what it's like not to have a Dad. I really feel for you chick xx
Maybe if you find out as much as you can about him, from relatives and friends etc. you'll be able to grieve. Sorry if it's a bad suggestion, i'm not very good at this.
2006-07-20 05:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by kjonno91 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm really sorry about that.. at least you know that your father is in a better place and he is always watching down on you and he will always be there for you. When you die you will be reunited with him for eternity, earthly life is only a page in the book of life So it wont' take long to get to the end of that page and you will have a happy ever after with your father
2006-07-20 05:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is you must try to understand he's always with you. he has left a small part o his sprit with. kinda been rubbed on by you living together. don't make an idol out of him but know this. he will never leave your very soul until you can meet him. and even if you didn't know him he still created you. he must off had feelings for you which left a small part off him with you
2006-07-20 06:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by rufus shinra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be difficult to lose a parent at such a young age but surely enough time has passed now that it is not such an acute hurt.
If it is still really raw then I suggest you approach your doctor to seek some grief counselling.
2006-07-20 05:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your dad has died means that you cannot have his physical presence. However your dads very being is part of who you are. It was his existance and body that brought you to this world.
This means that dad is part of you and part of who you are, he is with you always and is part of every decison and choice you make.
If you want to talk about it just email me, take care.
2006-07-20 05:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God. He will keep you happy and hopefully you can see him after this life is over. I'm sorry for your loss too... I lost many close family members through the years and I just pray when I feel the loss again. God Bless you!
2006-07-20 05:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by God's Servant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my mother and father when i was 11 and i lost my mother when i was 13, God protected me i ran away did some stupid things but God helped me and i got myself together, whatever you need God has it, Email if you would like to chat more be blessed i will keep you in prayer
2006-07-20 05:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by The Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are having a few problems which you want your Father to protect you from.
Sometimes speaking to the Samaritans helps, Good luck.
2006-07-20 05:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you miss him, but there is nothing that you can do to get him back. Best bet is to build relationships with other people. Presently you may find someone who is particularly special.
2006-07-20 05:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to move on. All you are doing now is causing yourself needless suffering; nothing that he would have wanted. Be grateful for the time you had and for the lessons his life could teach you.
2006-07-20 05:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by VanJimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋