2006-07-20 04:50:54 · 33 answers · asked by eptxbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't trust him, WHY would you want him back? Usually if you don't trust someone they either already gave you reason not to or your intuition is kicking in and something WILL happen...
2006-07-20 04:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by luveyinpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't trust him, the trust your gut.
If he got tired of your questions then he is so not worth your time.
He certainly isn't good enought for you.
But if I was asking this question, I know I wouldn't want 2 hear this.
My best advice is 2 really ask yourself a question:
"Do you really like him?"
"Is he 'the one'"
"Can I imagine him taking me 2 the dance"
and/or on a date/ marrying him"
"Will he ever take me back?"
If you really like him, you must decide if you love him. Love is a powerful thing. And if you "need" to be with him. You have 2 make sure that you really want him. And he will like you back
If he is the one, and if you believe he is in your heart, then you need to confront him. The most important things are always the hardest 2 say. Tell him the truth. Everything. If he cares about you or has a heart, he will understand. If he laughs then laugh back at him. It only proves that the things you are telling him are true.
After you spend so much time liking a guy and getting used 2 him dumping u or not liking you back, sometimes you are "over him" without knowing it. Can you imagine going all the way with him? Anything like that??
The last question might be the most important. Because he might never take him back. Think about his.
And if he does take you back and you gain his trust, don't ask so much questions. Life should be surpising. And knowing the answer to every question will only make it predictable, okay?
2006-07-20 05:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by jaguargrrl27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you couldn't trust him why would you want him back? Did he do something to lose your trust, or are you just that possessive? I'm not trying to be rude, or be a smartass. They are serious questions. If he did something wrong, is there a chance he may do it again, and are you willing to forgive him and move on. If he didn't do anything in particular, you are not with the right person. When you find the right person, you won't feel the need to ask so many questions.
2006-07-20 04:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to ask you a question with a question and that may not be nice but trust is an issue. How come you want to go back with a guy you don't trust???
Trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship. Did he give you reason not to trust him or were you feeling insecure for your own reasons?
2006-07-20 04:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not trust him because of something he did, or because of something others in your past have done? I'm fighting this same battle myself. I am dating a man now, but don't trust him because of what my past experiences included, so I have to tread carefully.
I do ask A LOT of questions. I just really want to get to know him...I guess I'll back off the questions before I scare him off....I'd be so upset at myself if I let that happen!
Maybe you could talk to him and explain it was your insecurity that led you to ask so much and not trust him, and that if he gives you another chance you won't be so untrusting. Then you would just have to tell yourself that you have to be more positive if you don't want to chase him away again.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 04:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through the same with my husband he had a lack of trust in me for no reason if he hasn't given you a reason the issue is not with him it's with you and in order for you ever to have a relationship work you have to work on you once you do that and show you did that and prove you can trust he may come back. I DID
2006-07-20 04:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by mandm4life@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to work on your trust issues before you embark on another relationship. He would be unwise to take you back at this juncture. Not good for either of you. Give yourself a break and just consentrate of you for a while. You're going to feel a lot better.
2006-07-20 04:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by irisheyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to decide whether or not you can trust him again. If not, then there's no point. If you can trust him, then you should explain to him where you're coming from - tell him you got over your fear of not trusting him and want the chance to prove that to him.
2006-07-20 04:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i do believe that most guys do not like to be ask too many questions. Well..... i am that kind of guy. answering too many questions makes me feel like i am a criminal even though i did not do anything. Maybe he is just not ur kind of guy but watever it is, if u get a second chance, pls give him alittle more confidence at least in the relationship.
2006-07-20 04:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Headache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone back that you don't trust? Chances are, you had a good reason not to trust him, so go find someone you can trust. Don't waste your time.
2006-07-20 04:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋