how can u make sure that the guy u like likes u b4 you tell him u like him. i really dont want to set myself up to b hurt
2006-07-20 04:50:45 · 12 answers · asked by i_heart_matt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hopefully you have some friends that can help you out with this one. Have someone else sort of mention you offhand and see his reaction. Also, when you try to talk to him, watch for body language and other signals. Don't come on too strong, but don't be afraid to drop a couple of hints to him either.
2006-07-20 04:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well matts a good name thats my husbands name. lol any way when you walk in a room have a friend watch his face does he notice you and what is the look on his face? that usually works. or you could call him and ask him if he know so and so's number and then strike up a converstaion. say that you wanted to call so and so to see if she wanted to go see this movie but you think she won't cause its not her type of flick. tell him if he is not to busy he can meet you up there if he wants. make sure you sound non chalant about it. like you could care less if he comes. but don't say that you could care less. good luck.
2006-07-20 04:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to set themselves up for hurt but if you DON'T say anything and he's too scared to, you will never know, right? Then again, it could turn out good. Life is a gamble -- this is one of them. Let's face it too, we all get hurt now and again. Then time is on our side and we move on with our lives. Go ahead....speak up.
2006-07-20 04:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a couple days off and kinda ignore him. or just steppin back to take note on what kinda stuff he does when ur not goin up to him to talk and stuff..
then if he comes to u then he probably likes u
if he acts like it dont matter that ur not talkin to him as much then he dont like u
2006-07-20 04:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his freinds the people he likes hanging out with and just hint around to them that you like him and then when that's over ask them if he likes you and if they say I don't know then get one of them to talk with him about your situation.If he does'nt like you honey move on there's alot more fish in the sea.
2006-07-20 04:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always get my friends to check if the guy likes me so then i dont feel so stupid when i tell him that i like him and he doesn't like me back.....you should also hang around him a lot so that you can see the way he acts around you an other girls like check if he acts different when hes around you
2006-07-20 04:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Tara Baybe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it.I would just go and tell the guy that you like.cause chances are that he likes you and is afraid to tell you like ur afraid to tell him. good luck
2006-07-20 04:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Be open and honest. You might get hurt, but that's okay. You're tough, you can take it.
2006-07-20 04:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by oldporkchops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting your friend to find out. It's working for me.
2006-07-20 04:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no real way to tell you have to just talk to him and see how he feels.
2006-07-20 04:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋