I am a single 32 y/o single capricon woman who has not been dating for a while. I need dating advise?

Question

I have spent a better patt of my life working and I am now really lonel and would wish to sette down, truly need dating advise.

Answer 1

first step is to find some men. once you find them heres some dating advice.


1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

5 . Slower is better.

6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

8. Don't settle.

9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less

19. Never let a man define who you are.

20. Never borrow someone else's man.

21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

23 . All men are NOT dogs.

24. You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is a two way street.

25. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship.

26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

29. Never move into his mother's house.

30. Never co-sign for a man.

31. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

32. Most of all don't let one bad apple spoil the bunch. There are good men out there. Love a good man with all your heart

Answer 2

Go to a site such as MySpace.com and search for men in your zipcode.

After this you will need to ask at least 10 of them out on dates.

Out of these 10 you will probably only like 2 or 3.

At this point you have to be romantic, but still careful not to show any weakness. Men are cruel these days and take advantage of anything they can (in general).

I suggest inviting your date over to watch a romantic comedy. You can cook dinner, have a few drinks and see where things go.

and...avoid single fathers. you don't want to be stuck with somebody elses children mooching off your hard earned paycheck.

Answer 3

well im 28 man i have been singel for awile and it can be hard i still go out some times BUT in ft.lauderdale things or just so busy > i am the kind of person that will never stop going after my dreams or hopes . or that part in side me that knows how good life can sometime be for some of us > I think you should just try to go out by your self eveing to a coffee place or preferably a bar and just meet people the more you go the more people you will meet guys will se you and want too talk go drink maybe eat dont spend too much so you can go ther more offten

Answer 4

If you make some good money and can put on some daisy dukes without exposing cottage cheese, I'll date you. On the other hand, some of the same people in the club go to your church, y'all haven't bumped heads though. Don't worry everybody needs to enjoy life not be uptight. Anything dead needs to be buried. Anything live needs to be out after five. Unless your unemployed you need to be out way before then.

Answer 5

I've never been a big fan of the bar scene for trying to hook up and date, and although I've heard of success stories of online dating, if it were me, I wouldn't really be all that interested... I think the key is to get out in your community and get involved. If you find activities you're interested in, you are more likely to meet someone like minded... Cooking classes, kickboxing, a gym, hiking group, biking group, reading clubs, museum showcases, social mixers at churches... there's really a lot to be found once you start looking. Good luck and have fun! :)

Answer 6

well you could start with a makeover. that will make you feel sexy. i met my husband at a night club we have been married for four years now. wear some thing sexy but not to reavealing leave something to imagination. always start off by asking him something about himself and fill in the blanks as you go along. like as him what he does for a living and then once he tells you what he does let him know what you do. and so on. never let him in your house or drive you home on the first date. if this guys a weirdo you don't want him to know where you live. good luck and relax guys smell fear. lol

Answer 7

Well to begin with, you need to make yourself available for someone to meet you. Then you need to take a serious look in the mirror and see what you can do to improve your physical look that would make someone want to talk with you or get to know you. I'm not saying dress slutty, but make yourself presentable to the general public, wearing something that would catch the eye. Then make sure you have a list of subjects that you can discuss without that "awkward" pause of time, it makes you much more interesting to a man, especially one that is more interested in you for you and not just your body! Anysay, good luck and welcome to the dating world!!

Answer 8

I met the mother of my daughter online (AmericanSingles.com) but if I could do it over again based on what I've heard about it I would try Eharmony.com. Good luck to you. No nice guys in the gym? Ask one you like for a spot, or how to use a machine even if you know...we love that stuff.

Answer 9

When you meet a potential "date" think of them as a potential friend. You need to express an interest in them, and it has to be sincere. If they bore you or turn you off in some way, pass them up. It's better to be alone than with someone you don't really like.

Answer 10

I read that...100% said YES!!!
Question: "Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sexual intercourse with her?"
Base: Only respondents who have been in love were asked.
90% of men who are interested call with in 72 hours.
Consistent with men's quick assessment of first dates is the following: The vast majority (86%) of men will call a woman for a second date within 24 hours of their first date if he's interested. In other words, women: if he hasn't called you within 24 hours, you have less than a one in seven chance that you'll hear from him again.

100% said No
Question: "Can having sexual intercourse make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you?"
Base: Only respondents who have been in love were asked.
Sixty-two percent of women say it takes at least one hour to decide if a man is worth going out with a second time. Fifty-six percent of men say it takes them 15 minutes or less.
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