We've been mates for months now and we're pretty close. I've told her blantantly that I really like her. I'm pretty sure she likes me too but she has a boyfreind. He's really clingy and she's told me she's not entirely happy in with him. I'm not a jerk by nature, but what should I do. Should I try to muscle in and "show her what she's missing" or should I wait and see what happens with them? I've waited 2 months already and it drives me crazy to see them together. She's on holiday at the moment and it's killing me not seeing her. Help!
2006-07-20 04:43:30 · 17 answers · asked by genericusername2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Poor you - first off you sound like a really great guy!!
I think you need to put yourself out of your misery and ask her stratight out if you stand a chance with her -if she has any sense she'll realise what shes missing out on with you and dump him.
Let me know how you get on
Good luck
2006-07-20 04:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a hater to me. Mad at what another man got. If the girl didn't want to be with him, she just flat out wouldn't be. If your game was strong, she would've left him by now. Obviously not! Apparently this other guy's game is. She told you she's not entirely happy, but yet HE STILL GOT HER!! and don't be a fool and think he don't know about you. She told him about you already. You must be new to this game. Look, read a bunch of women magazines, learn what women like. Rent some Pimpin videos and stop haten.
2006-07-20 05:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by SandMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honorable thing to do is to not interfere...she's got a boyfriend, she has to decide to leave him on her own. She knows you like her-so I would just leave it at that.
I know it's tough and you are probably very tempted to tell the guy to buzz off...but their relationship is not really your business. If she asks you for advice-you should simply say, 'if you are not happy with him and the two of you cannot work it out, then it's probably time to go,'
I feel for ya...I've been there, done that and got the T-shirt!
2006-07-20 04:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by redfernkitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about her feelings and whether or not she's really into the guy she's with, and if she really thinks she could go on being with this guy when she tells you of how slightly unhappy she is with him. I suppose you could show her why she would want to be with you to make her even more positive of what she wants to do with her relationships by flirting or making her feel happy with you, but if she truly does have more feelings for you than the guy she is with, it is inevitable that she'll eventually come to you.
2006-07-20 04:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation once. Be honest with her. If you want to risk it and you're confident inthat she prefers you over her bf, what you should do is be staright up with her. Tell her you like her and want to date her, but she has to dump her boyfriend first. Try to make her see that maybe she would alot happier with you than him. Good luck man
2006-07-20 04:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you really care for this person but im sorry to say that i don't think she feels the same,you say you've told her how you feel so theres not much more you can do.if shes not happy with her currant partner she would have left him by now.im sorry hun but this isn't going any further for you,if you can't just be her friend maybe you should call it a day with your friendship.you will meet that special person who likes you just as much as you like them but this girl is not the one for you.good luck.
2006-07-20 04:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by tracey562128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and then leave it up to her. Don't start a relationship with her until she has told her boyfriend that it is over between them though!! Good luck xx
2006-07-20 04:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's on holiday at the moment and it's killing me not seeing her.
..why ain`t you dead then
well get on with life if you ain`t got a reply
find someone else she`s keeping you hanging in case she gets dumped by her bf
2006-07-20 04:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best things come to those who wait. If she says shes not happy with him then it probably wont last anyway so just sit tight and just be a friend to her.
2006-07-20 04:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her, be her friend, but don't try and persuade her to leave her man for you... if she does and she gets together with you, what if she misses him and regrets breaking up with him.... then she might get angry with you because you are the reason they broke up... just wait. if it was meant to be, it will happen
2006-07-20 04:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋