2006-07-20 04:28:52 · 46 answers · asked by smev.pirate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you just dont. muppet.
2006-07-20 04:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Triis 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay, having a "My Best Friend's Wedding" moment here... if you are serious and you two have a history or there is some pressing reason why you think you have a right to interfere in her engagement, then the only thing you can do is honestly tell her you love her and you don't want her to get married. BUT.... if she turns you down in any way shape or form, don't ever bring it up again.
My gut reaction - Just don't!!! If the girl is already engaged, she is WAY off the market.
2006-07-20 05:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, do you know how she feels about you? Does she even know you like her? Saying that you love her is pretty strong. If she's happy I would not get in between, let her be. Just stick around and be a good a friend but don't depend on her leaving someone she's happy with.
2006-07-20 04:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by DON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her do anything. If you love her, you'll leave her alone and let her be happy with her life and her decisions. Wanting her to leave her fiance is selfish of you. This shouldn't have been anything to consider. Sorry if it sounds harsh...but this isn't right!
2006-07-20 04:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Khalila B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard to let the one you love go but just think how she would feel if you made her leave her fiance. would you rather be heart broken or break her heart? think about it. if you love her enough you would let her be happy with the one that she loves. obviously you two were not meant to be. i mean everything happens for a reason. you're bound to find someone else who you feel even stronger about and who loves you back . and you'll be happy together.
2006-07-20 04:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt, this girl has made her choice of who she wants to be with and you should accept it!
Why do you think your feelings are more important than the feelings of this girl and her current boyfriend?
You should accpet that she is happy and move on before you either
1) get your head kicked in by her current boyfriend and lets be fair he has every right to do it!
2) wreak your friendship with this girl and end up making a fool out of yourself.
More on and find someone else.
2006-07-20 04:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you wont ask her to make a decision like that. You dont say if you two are having an affair or anything, but chances are that if shes engaged - shes kinda in love with her fiancee!!
Also if she DOES leave him for you - will you ever be able to trust her not to do the same to you?
2006-07-20 04:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple ...YOU SHOULDN'T.
let her make her own mind up. Don't start wrecking other peoples relationships. I know its possible to like more than one person at once but you need to respect her and her partner. Find a single girl. Give them both space and time. If she wants you she will come. If not then say O' well and move on. Don't push her or you will end up hurting everybody.
2006-07-20 04:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have to have her leave her fiance and she is not willing to do it on her own evidently she do not want to leave him. Maybe u should just let her have time to decide.
2006-07-20 04:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Beautiful Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. You need to be understanding of the reasons.
She might be under family pressure. Or just that she wants to move on.
2006-07-20 05:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, let her be happy with her fiance, because if she really liked you, you would be her fiance. She could like this guy! Leave her be.
2006-07-20 04:32:42 · answer #11 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋