The thought of something touching me is very uncomfortable, even it's platonic. It's like a violation of privacy. I'd rather not have intercourse with anyone because it feels like you're giving a part of yourself away. And once your naked, there's no more to share? Also, the germs and disease people harvest is definitely a turn off. I'd rather stay within my head; emotional rollercoasters aren't something I'd like to deal with. I'm also very obsessive when it comes to other people. I don't think I'm deserving of love, but then I don't think a potential mate could find better than better. What's wrong with me? Anyone else experience the same situation?
2006-07-20 04:21:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I completely understand what you are going through. The older you get and the longer you stay single, you start to think about the risks. For me, the pain of breakups, the potential of getting sick, and risking disapointing sex, makes it easier to abstain from sex. When I do have sex, that person has to be very special to me. It's a good thing to be very cautious about who you sleep with. I draw power from being careful and responsible. While others may want to have sex frequently (like I used to), I realize there's something nice about waiting, letting the excitement build, and really taking the time to learn if that guy is worth sharing my emotions and my heart with. Your feelings are out of maturity, and don't feel ashamed for being different, in my opinion, better than other people.
2006-07-20 04:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats akward. Well I think the reason why you dont want to be intimate with another person is because you are nervous about what the other person might think of YOUR body and also the STDs and stuff like that. If anything you and the person that you plan to be intimate with should go and get tested together, afterwards you might feel more comfortable about having sex with them. The only person that really knows what you are feeling and can eventually solve this problem is YOU. Try seeing a psychologist about this issue as well.
2006-07-20 04:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no but u need to get better self esteem, don't ever tell urself u don't deserve love. i guess its alright if u just keep it in ur head but you will get bored with that after awhile and so what r u gonna do then? and having a relationship doesn't mean having sex all the time........work on the obsessivness, good luck bud
2006-07-20 04:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem it sucks
2006-07-20 04:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by i_heart_matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have internet porn for you and people like you
2006-07-20 04:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you,its ok
2006-07-20 04:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
najaca is right,,,,, she's very right and so are you,
2006-07-21 08:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by prinsisss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KOOKOO!
2006-07-20 04:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋