i'm a virgin guy and i hope to marry a virgin girl. if i meet a girl i like, is it proper to ask if she's a virgin and at wat point in d relationship can i ask? or is it possible to know without asking and without having sex?
2006-07-20 04:19:27 · 7 answers · asked by johnbull 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would wait until you get really close in the relationship. dont ask her at the very beggining b/c then she will think you are only going out with her to have sex. if you want to marry a virgin then make sure you ask if she is before asking her to marry you. if you love her that much though, it shouldnt matter if she is a virgin or not.
2006-07-20 04:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? If you really loved her enough to get married, you shouldn't really care if she has been around the block a few times. If she wants you to know, she will tell you on her own-- I told a guy right before having sex with him-- and he said well that makes a first time for both of us "I've never done a virgin"
2006-07-20 11:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never really know for sure. They could be lying. But if you're comfortable with the honour system, just make sure to let girls know up front before you start dating them that you are looking to settle down with someone who is a virgin like yourself. That way you don't even have to ask them if they are. If they are not they will either tell you or won't pursue something with you. Plus even if you offended some girls by asking them , they aren't the right one. The right girl will share your beliefs in that area and won't be offended.
2006-07-20 11:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's proper to ask. You'll know when the time is right. Maybe when you gte to know her better and talk about personal feelings, thoughts, or beliefs. That's when i always do it. It's hard to put a time frame on when to ask, but it depends on your level of communication and how open you guys are with each other. Also, you won't be able to tell without asking or without having sex, unless you're a gynocologist.
2006-07-20 11:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u hear stuff about her messing around wuith guys its porly true, but otherwise just pick a date where your both comfortable and when u can talk about the future
2006-07-20 11:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by i_heart_matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can stick yer whole arm in her snatch
, all the way up to yer elbow, she ain't no virgin
2006-07-20 11:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just ask her.
2006-07-20 11:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋