We got divorced 3 months ago, (he left me for another woman), and now they've split and he calls me everyday wanting to hang out. Its taken me all this time to get over him and I've met someone else, nothing serious, just talking, but these phone calls has raised feelings again. I don't want to take him back, but it's so hard not to. What do I do?
2006-07-20 04:16:42 · 15 answers · asked by mascadine2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop talking to your ex husband as soon as you can. This man left you for another woman and when the relationship didn't work out for them he feels like he can come back to you. You deserve so much better than a loser like this. I don't care how much love was there and what feelings are coming into motion again. The fact is that he disrespected you and dropped you like a hot potato. That had to be the worst feeling for you, and I know you will never forget it. If you let this man back into your life he could do the same thing again. Even if he didn't he isn't worthy of having a good woman like you. He is taking you for a fool right now. Let him know that his time has come and gone with you. Let him know how it feels for a change. He cared nothing about your feelings when he left you so why should you care anything about his. You will never be able to trust him again, and he would always cheat behind your back again. You deserve a man that is truly going to love you and respect you. Even though you have nothing serious going on with this new man that doesn't mean you don't have another man in your future. You will make the biggest mistake if you continue to talk and go out with your ex. Cut him loose before you regret things later on. He wants a pity party and you don't need to be crazy enough to give it to him. I hope you will make the best decision for yourself where this is concerned. I wish you the best of luck!!!
2006-07-20 04:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be strong! think about it the guy left you for someone else and he could easily do it again! do not get dragged back into his trap, hes not worth it and you are way to good for him. as hard as it might be let him sweat it out, if he then proves to you that he really loves you then you have stuff to think about but never let ur guard down because you dont deserve to get hurt again!
2006-07-20 04:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same prob., my divorce was final in apr. after over a yr, he left me 4 another woman, and expecting a baby anyday.......he calls just to chat, and ask advice, my b/f thinks hes regretting the divorce, but i'm not, i'm alot happier now, and ready to move on with my life. jus ignore him, and dont take calls. use voice mail!
2006-07-20 04:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP !!! Remember he's an ex for a reason!!! He cheated on you...left you for her ....and now he's alone!! He made his bed now let him lie in it!!! and remember..would he be calling you if he still had her??NO!!!!! He left YOU for HER!!!!! Tell him that you're busy and don't want to "hang out" give it lots of time before you ever consider doing that...Good luck!!
2006-07-20 04:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop calling you! if it makes you uncomfortable then just tell him to get lost. he left you and thats not cool. it seems as if you are just there when there is no one better for him. you cant let him take advantage of you like that. then he will think he can go out with other women until they break up with him and then he will just keep going back to you because he knows he can. dont let him do that to you. you deserve better.
2006-07-20 04:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his phone calls. Always remember that there is a reason he is an ex.
2006-07-20 04:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your phone number(s) changed and don't give them to anyone except your family close friends. If you truly want to get away from him, you can do it. The longer you wait it out the stronger you will get. CHANGE YOUR PHONE NUMBERS!!!!
2006-07-20 04:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he left you for a next woman and if you take him back he'll do it again you need to tell him to stop calling and you've move on don't fall for his trap
2006-07-20 04:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go if you have found someone that makes you happy forget the pass and keep it moving
2006-07-20 04:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by A WOMAN SCORN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have kids then tell him to stay away, if you have kids then tell him your business is stictly about the kids and nothing else
2006-07-20 04:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋