is it wrong to be in love at a young age
2006-07-20 04:10:44 · 48 answers · asked by kissy kiss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not wrong per se, but probably not accurate. most likely its LUST.
2006-07-20 04:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Love is a feeling that one can not control, so being in love at a young age isn't wrong- however if one should act on this feeling of love on a sexual level- that would be wrong. Let me explain why I say that- while you may be in love- sex will change the situation- especially if a baby comes into play-- While you may feel love for this person, that person may not feel love for you-- even some adults find themselves in situations where they thought it was love only to find out the other person had other plans-- Just be careful.
2006-07-20 04:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is "do you think you are in love". When you are young and inexperienced in the love game, love can seem to be there when all it is, is an illusion. You might think that you are deeply in love with him but , what you are doing is replacing the love of family and friends for the feeling of freedom. Is it lust or love? Do you have sexual contact with him? Does he really make you feel comfortable and really wanted? I hope he isn't the possessive type that won't let you be with your friends because that could lead to some disasterous situation. I have heard of young guys not wanting the other go, so they are bossy, over obsessive , and the worst of all, posessive. That has lead to stalking, beatings, and even murder. Just back off and let yourself lust or double like him. Love is something completely new to you and you have to experience a few relationships before you really know what love is. time will tell and let that teach you, don't talk yourself into thinking you are in love.
2006-07-20 04:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by likit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not at all wrong. But, and I hate to say it, your sense of what love is will change dramatically as you get older. I thought I was in love ten times over in my teen years, but it wasn't until I got older that I was able to really know what love was. So, it may or may not be love, but who cares? If it makes you happy, and doesn't hurt anyone, then go for it! Don't worry about the future. Live in the now. You're young.
2006-07-20 04:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Monkeypup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong, but most young people haven't matured enough to really know what true love is and many times they sell themselves short by not shopping around more. Most young people experience "puppy love" which is just a deep infatuation, a crush, not the life-long commitment that true love encompasses.
2006-07-20 04:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not wrong to be in love at a young age
you are not really in love you think you are
you are just confused
2006-07-20 04:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie3bd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you if you're in love or not. If you think you are then you are and nothing is wrong with that. Don't listen to people who tell you you're too young to be in love. They're just pissed that they either didn't love anyone that young or still have never found anyone! Live it up!
2006-07-20 04:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by miller8786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is wrong but you have yet to really experince life yet. Loveing someone is ok as long as you dont make a serious commitment at a really younge age. Live life enjoy life but dont give up your freedom to quickly or else you might come to regret it. I have been there so I know.
2006-07-20 04:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessarily wrong, but at such a young age it is probably not true love. You just really like him. Anyway, you should focus on your school work, guys just get in the way.
2006-07-20 04:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by dancinmonkey918 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young is young? And what do you mean "in love"?
O.K. if your below the age of 14/15 it's cool be "in love" and hold hands and crap, but y'all better not be doing anything else.
If you above the age 14/15 yeah it's cool to be in love just use protection. 'K
2006-07-20 04:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy life and don't let infatuations ruin the time that you have to be young. Being young is a great time so don't ruin it trying to get boyfriends and going through many heartbreaks. Just hang out with a bunch of friends and enjoy yourself. But don't start trying to become attached and form relationships that are doomed.
2006-07-20 04:14:13 · answer #11 · answered by mcguiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋