i have always being loved by beatifuel girls and always i hurt them because i dream about my past lover.do i have a problem
2006-07-20 04:06:58 · 59 answers · asked by khomotsosays 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-20 04:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a common problem. Don't rush into the next relationship when after breaking up with a girl that "love".
1. Your feelings for the next girl will not strong becasue she will be getting rebound feelings from the last girl.
2. You need to take time off too be alone a recover from the last girl so that you can have fun and love her without thinking or feeling bad about the ex-girlfriend
Stay Positive
2006-07-20 04:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid, just in love with the wrong girl. Look it is obvious that she has moved on and put the past behind her so why can't you do the same thing.... Life goes on sweetie.... Find you another love, and stop wasting your time and efforts on this girl. You seem to be an attractive young guy and some female out there would love to loved the way that you love this girl....
2006-07-20 06:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut-up, if you are still thinking about your past lover when you are with your current lover then you shouldnt have done anything to hurt the past one in the first place. You need some serious help, thats a problem. Stupid.
2006-07-20 04:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do.If you always dream about your lost love then you can never go forward in another relationship.You need to get over her.Is there a chance you can get back with this girl that has your heart?If not then you need to let go of something that dosent exist or never will exist.As for the girls you keep hurting try not to get in a relationship until you have resolved your issues and feelings with the other girl.
2006-07-20 04:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a therapist. Seems like you go into a new relationship too fast you should wait and get your ex out of your head. Clear your mind then move on.
It's like a 5 year old u teach him 2+2 monday and then calculus tuesday. That's not good cuz he will still be wondering what 2+2 is.
2006-07-20 04:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by General X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, maybe you do have a problem, maybe not. I mean you cant control who you're thinking of, but if this is a common problem with all your relationships, i mean you lost one girl because you were thinking about the previous, and you lose the nest girl because you were thinking about the previous one (who left you because you were thinin gof the one before her), it's just unhealthy. And Maybe are you doing this on purpose because you are not sure about what you really want yet. But hink about it, take a break from relationships if necessary, and think about a way to solve this issue you have.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 04:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by diamant152001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I have always dated attractive, unforgettable women it is totally healthy to reminisce on the past. I have found that the women that I have because of this weren't right for me anyway. You have to keep your standards the women that I still think about have a lot in common with the girl I am dating now and I like her because she has a lot in common with my past.
2006-07-20 04:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by lawsonmc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are stupid. I think you need closure from your past relationship before you can go on. It is not fair for the next person if you are still in love with the last.
2006-07-20 04:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by swalkersw1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should move on cuz there's no use to cry over a spilt milk and you shouldn't hurt the ones who love you cuz if you do, you might end up as a lonely and no friends type of person..you know what i mean?? and the best way to forget about your last lover is get to know your new gf..maybe you could find something precious inside your new lover which your last lover doesn't have and maybe you could like your new gf better..think about it..
2006-07-20 04:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dante-rebillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not stupid, just a bit depressed.
It's okay to dream of past girls, just don't tell anybody about these dreams. Have fun with life.
2006-07-20 04:09:54 · answer #11 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋