can strong feelings for your lover change without reason?

Question

you had a crush on someone and when you finally got to be with them you two had a good relationship.
youve been together for two years and your feelings are starting to change . you dont love the person anymore and you dont feel they can provide you with what you need.

Answer 1

your feelings can change yes. Their is a reason for everything.

Answer 2

Yes very much. Things change and thats part of life though life need not change because its somethin to do with love and feelings which never change if you love by your heart and not mind. Loving by heart is the true love which is blissful. Loving by mind is that u r after somethin... may be his position, money or whatever.
You say 'good relationship' and then you say 'dont love...'. Are you sure its love only? Ask yourself this question and you will get an answer. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Maybe the relationship did not match your expectations. When that happens you are always prone to be dissappointed. Also some peopel love the chase. But once they finally get to sleep with the person they lose interest and move on. And it could have nothing to do with the person at all.

Answer 4

The best thing to do is move on at this point. You both have probably changed and out grown each other. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that as long as you don't string the person along.

Make the break-up quick and easy. Don't prolong it.

Answer 5

Feelings can change, but it is rarely all of a sudden. Rather it is small disappointments or disagreements building up, or boredom that causes the change. I would want to discuss it with my mate first to see if it is something that can be worked out rather than throw away a two-year relationship.

Answer 6

chances are, you didn't truly love them to begin with. It could be that you are getting bored. Have they changed at all? Maybe a little time away from this person will help you appreciate them more. If not, it's time to move on, because you probably don't love them the way you should.

Answer 7

as we grow older and more mature our tastes change, likes and dislikes,
your lover has also gone through changes and you may have grown apart. if you both want to continue the relationship seek out counseling.
the biggest things i see that happens in a relationships is forgetting how to talk to each other and truly listening to each other.
stop being defensive and listen to what is bothering your partner and in turn they need to listen to you.
relationships can be hard work, but like any hard work the rewards are great.
if your relationship started out being lust and sex everyone finds out that relationships based on sex are doomed to fail

Answer 8

sounds like you are losing interest and really were just excited about the fact that you finally got with the person of your interest. I think that once you finally got him and had him, you got use to him and this was only infactuation.

Answer 9

you said it right there, you dont think they can provide what you need. you are simply interested in your self, well its best to leave him and get on finding what someone can give you that you think you need. you invented this person in your head, you didnt really know what he was like, now you wasted 2 yrs of your life and maybe all of his life.

Answer 10

tat will mean there maybe a communication break down and the distance between the both of you have incresed too much. well.. its either one of u slow down the pace or the other party do his/her best to catch up. or else the best u is to say BYE BYE.