First1.3 yrs he appeared to be single; After being found out to be a married man, he rationalized to be going on the divorce process without feelings or sex and the ralationship went on for another 1.5 yrs; now it was found out his wife sends him regular forwarded sexual message, which means they have normal sex and marriage; I feel worst now although we broke up already
2006-07-20 03:21:19 · 7 answers · asked by Beiker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have your closest, dearest friends over. Eat whatever you want. Then get a makeover. Then go out for a fun night on the town. Then plot some form of revenge. More ice cream. More facials. More retail therapy. Reading self help books and inspirational quotes also help too. I hope this cheers you up : )
2006-07-20 03:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand your feeling bad though the principle in life is never be with someone who is telling you hes tryiing to leave someone else let him sort out his business first if hes really serious he'll come to you when hes done.That being said you just have to take it one day at a time heartache is something im experiencing presently for the first time in my life so i knw what you are talking about.Surround yourself with friends meet new people go to places where you dont have to be alone for too long.And when you feel down the most its ok to cry,just know it will get better over time and you'll be glad you broke up with him.best of luck
2006-07-20 10:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by PODETHCRO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 options. Sulk about it for the rest of your life, or dust yourself off and move on!! Seems like a simple choice to me. Could have been worse..........be happy you only wasted 1+ yrs of your life instead of, say, 10!! A man's sexual desires sometimes overpowers honesty, commitment, and morality.
Good luck, sweetie!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-07-20 10:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about this person. time is the best cure to everything. but if you really put your heart and soul into it, no matter how long it is, you will still miss him. but this kind of miss is just totally different. the love you have with him, its just not the love you had when you are with him. all you want to do is to know what he is doing now, how he is now, if he is fine and etc. all you want is to do something quietly to make him feel happy, support him secretly...
2006-07-21 09:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat this as an experience n move on dear...or maybe give tat guy a slap would surely make u feel better...
2006-07-20 11:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with friends for a girls night out, and find someone else that wont lie to you.
2006-07-20 10:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out more......F*** him, he didn't mind lying to you so you didn't mean that much no matter what he said to you. Good luck to you :-)
2006-07-20 10:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋