it terms of deciding to begin a commitment that may last forever with the help of the lord
2006-07-20 03:14:59 · 25 answers · asked by khumbulani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This exploration is simple.
By asking yourself good questions, you will lead your self to search for positive answers.
its like is the glass half empty or half full. some times things just run through our minds and when you love some one the thought of them "playing" can make you think all sorts at the end of the day if you love some one enough or they love you and it is true the answer is no.
there is a saying the person who thinks the others a player is the player them self and this is because of trust as soon as you have a wondering eye its easyer to feel the same about your partner, easyer for you to think thay are cheeting on you. lifes to short to think of answers go with your heart whats ment to be will be .... georgie x
2006-07-20 03:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by Georgie B 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
U already knew the answer to that question before U even asked it.
I think U just need to be honest with yourself. If this person truly cares about U, U know it. It will show in the way they look @ U, talk to U and even touch U.
Sometimes though we have a tendency to see that which is not there, so becareful that, that is not the case.
Communication is the key to ANY successful relationship.
TALK TALK TALK and when the other person talks, LISTEN, don't just hear what they are saying try to HEAR THEM.
There is a difference in listening to someone and hearing WHAT THEY HAVE SAID.
So try to approach the conversation without taking things to personal, let the other person speak, then tell them how U feel and take it from there.
2006-07-20 03:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect you are being played, one of two things is going on:
1. You are being paranoid. If that is the case, you need to figure out why, and work on that. Until you do, it would not be appropriate for you to enter into a lifelong commitment. Or
2. You are being played. If you've seen evidence that something is going on, something is most likely going on. Confront your partner and resolve the issue, and make sure it is not going to happen again. Someone who plays around plays around. Getting caught once is usually not a deterrant. If you believe he/she is the type who is just not monogamous, and you want a monogamous lifelong relationship, you are shopping at the wrong store.
Good luck.
2006-07-20 03:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot trust someone then you should never make that commitment. If you would trust your life in thier hands and know that they would never do anything to you to hurt you (mentally or physically) and you vice versa then that is the person for you. Your soul mate. I thank the lord every day that I have found mine.
2006-07-20 03:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by sarah a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you mention the Lord, the only and best answer is through the guidance of the Holy Spirit. But...
...should you desire to take the matters in your own hands which I take it to be that way based on this post, you need to really talk to them. You will be able to see through the games. Actions speak far louder than words.
2006-07-20 03:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lord has nothing to do with it. Use your common sense.
If your partner doesn't treat you with the utmost respect, then you shouldn't be thinking about spending the rest of your life with that person.
2006-07-20 03:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide in your heart whether or not you're going to trust them......do you feel like your partner is committed to you? I have no doubts about my man....he's never given me any reason to doubt him.......if your partner gives you reason to doubt, then by all means, DO NOT PROCEED.....make sure you can trust before you tie yourself down.
2006-07-20 03:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things cannot be dragged on for long.
Within a short period you will know whether it is play or not.
It is a matter of time. Time is the solution.
2006-07-20 03:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remembering friends of mine that cheat on the significant others I notice most of them fell guilty about it, & ask there partners if there cheating on them. So... if ur b/f or g/f ask you are you cheating on me I would see that as a heads up. =/
2006-07-20 03:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by rice311 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot tell. You can trust and take a chance on love or play it safe and never love at all.
2006-07-20 03:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋