wondering if there are any people out there that are just tired of trying. my last relationship i would try anything to make it work. He was an alcoholic and i always came in second/third behind the booze or betting... No sex for over a year, and maybe only 20 times in the 6 years always an excuse about childhood drama, lack of interest and NOW if he could see himself having sex if just didnt work for him. What a waste of time... Are there more people out there than just myself that believed for SO LONG... tell me I not the only idiot out there. Now I just want to be by myself, no namecalling, no stress and I guess dieing alone is better than having someone in the house that doesnt care for you at all. Please give me your thoughts...
2006-07-20 03:13:05 · 5 answers · asked by Maggie O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your still awesome! Just coming into your prime...well maybe a little later than just coming into it but you still have alot to offer. Seize the day..
2006-07-20 03:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand..100%. I was married for 9 years had 3 kids..got divorced. Remarried a year ago...and I would like to strangle my new Hubby. He acts like a dictator and boss. Not the loving person that I married. Now we have a 2 year old together, I have to work during the day so he needs to get up in the morning with her. I don't feel safe leaving my daughter because he wont wake up. This is a fight. Money is a fight, The fact that he thinks he's always right, is a fight. We don't have sex because I pretty much am annoyed by everything about him. Even when we are getting along he talks so much about himself that the conversation is completely one sided. If I even begin to tell him things that are going on with me he just shrugs it off. He says if it doesn't effect him in any way he doesn't care to hear it. nice. I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to struggle on my own with a 2 year old, but I would rather be by myself. I'm 38, 25 pounds over weight and just tired. what do woman in our situation do?
2006-07-20 03:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with someone, still am, who was an alcoholic for 5 years.. bouncing in and out of rehab... he finally had to move to a new city to get a clean start.. the fact is until they acknowledge the behavior and accept they have a problem and decide they need to quit for themselves... they never get better.... I have finally accepted that the relationship was flawed and never going to work because it wasn't based in honesty and to be honest being on your own has it's advantages.. you can get to know yourself... see what it is in you that keeps drawing you back to unhealthy relationship's... concentrate on you... get yourself in a healthy mind-frame and don't look for love... let it find you...sounds hard but once you start working at it you start to feel a little better each day and then it is like what have I been wasting my time on all these years... being true to yourself is the best gift you can give yourself...
2006-07-20 03:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maggie, its just the way things are nowadays. Give yourself a break, some time to rest and recharge your soul. When and if you think you might be ready for one more go at it, you might consider eharmony.com. Their service matches your qualities and interests with others who are similarly seeking a good working relationship. Good luck.
2006-07-20 03:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me can you cook/ whats your views on kids and dogs? can you give good head? do you like giving head? im me i'm looking for you
2006-07-20 03:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋