Girls only, could you please answer this for me?

Question

I have become good friends with this girl this summer because we live close by and we have done a lot of things together. We have not been romantic at all. We are both roughly the same age 14-15. Anyway we have talked about our bodies and how curious we are and she mentioned that we could always show each other a little. She also said that she didn't want to do anything but she wants to touch me and make my ......... get ......... First let me say, OF COURSE I WANT TO, but........ a couple of questions. First one is, I have never heard of a girl WANTING to see a guy's ....... and touch it and make it ........ is she wierd to feel that way or have other girls her age done /wanted to do that? Secondly, I have never heard of a girl (not a girlfriend) that would be willing to get naked and let a guy (that is just a friend) touch her. Is that something that is normal for girls her age? Also, I want to do this but need some courage....any help?

Answer 1

more courage! no q! if u both want where`s the problem? i don`t c.. we all re different maybe she likes to do all this it`s absolutely normal. good luck.

Answer 2

Sweetie the first thing u need to do is stop and think. WHY R U so upset about this???
It only natural 4 the 2 of U too be curious.
But if U don't want her to touch U then tell her no, it's that simple.
U R not wrong for having these feelings, contrary to what older people have told U sex is NOT A BAD THING. But sex is a serious thing, and U shouldn't take it mildly. If U think U are ready and Ur friend wants to do this, then give it a shot. Just becareful U both R still very young and there is still SO much too learn. And if u decide to do this IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT U ONLY LIKE GIRLS. @ Ur age U R just curious as too what things feel like and how being touched a certain way by someone else could feel. It's normal.
Just be sure that afterwards U 2 will still remain friends.
U wouldn't wanna loose a friend over this.

Answer 3

I can understand her curiosity, still I need to say this.....she's only 14-15, you should think about how you feel, or how would you talk about a girl who said or did that with one of your friends, you would probably say something bad about her....wouldn't all guys that age??? I understand your curiosity too, so it is your choice, this time you are the guy who has everything all guys your age wants, a girl who's practically saying I want to "play" with you. As a 14-15 guy, you should think about what you are feeling towards her, if you really like her, I can tell you know that you will not respect her after this, but if you are completely sure that you don't care if tomorrow you guys don't ever talk, then go for it. Remember, everything will be different, you as a guy can take advantage of what she's offering, but you have to make sure you don't care about her enough, because what if you really care and she doesn't, how would you feel afterwards, how would you feel if your friends start talking bad things about her, how will you feel if you find out she's like that with all your friends too???? Well, it is your choice, but you should think about yourself, about what you want and need in your life right now, do you need a girl all over you, all the time, because afterwards maybe she'll think she's your girl or something, like she's had power over you because of what happens........Think about it, if you decide to give in, enjoy....if you don't need the drama of everything that comes afterwards in your life right now, don't worry there will be plenty of girls as time progress, and I can tell you this, EVERYTHING will be a lot better with someone you really care for, believe!!!

Answer 4

"Secondly, I have never heard of a girl (not a girlfriend) that would be willing to get naked and let a guy (that is just a friend) touch her." -- that my friend, is what we call a SLUT... use it to your advantage

"Also, I want to do this but need some courage....any help?"
-- do you have access to any alcohol? that helps (just don't drink too much, because your .... won't get ..... !)

also, see if she will put your ....... in her mouth, that is fun too!
(just make sure its clean,-- take a shower before :)

HAVE FUn!!!!

(oh yeah, if you're gonna go all the way, then wear a condom or remember to pull out!)

Answer 5

Ok, here's the thing! Of course she is normal. You are too! I remember being 15 and I wanted in the worse way to see a guy's penis. Honestly, its all my girlfriend and I talked about (I guess somethings never change..LOL) Now for you friend to have a guy that is close to her and not be judgmental of her feelings or body, Plus not HAVE to go all the way. Why wouldn't that sound great! My advice is to do it, be safe...and gentle, and have fun! As far as your friend and the overly willing naked girl. Its normal, I did it with my best guy friend. We messed around for years, then in high school, we started dating, now we are married. I am not saying you have to date, or marry your friend but as for messing around. Sure, its harmless. Its exploring your curiosity in a safe environment.

Answer 6

Sounds like her hormones are raging which is normal, but she is having a hard time dealing with it appropriately.

You both are too young to experiment with sex right now, back off before things get out of hand.

Fooling around can lead to many problems like:

1. Her getting you aroused and then not wanting to go further
2. You two having sex which could result in an unwanted pregnancy, disease , rape accusations or getting caught.

Tell your friend to chill out and go take a cool shower.

Answer 7

If I were you, I"d be asking myself how many other guys she played show and tell with. I doubt very much if you're the only one, she's way too easy. I know you're young and curious, but I'd think that one through and keep your pants zipped. Nowadays, when you get something it's foreverrrrrrrr and you definitely don't want an std.

Answer 8

Curiosity is normal. To act on emotions is also normal.
However, doing so does NOT make it right. You must be able to look in the mirror each day and not experience negative or guilt for things done in a reckless moment.......As well as the acceptance of any and all consequences of one's actions.

Answer 9

She might really like you and feel comfortable with you. But its not abnormal for girls to want that, we think about sex just as much as a man, dont let any one ever tell you different, its true. But you both are too young to be doing that, if anything does happy be careful.

Answer 10

I think it's perfectly normal, and sounds like she feels comfortable with you. What bothers me is both of you are still very young to be exploring each others bodies. why not give it time and wait to do the expirementing when you have a girlfriend.

Answer 11

it's normal to be curious at that age. it doesn't even sound like she's doing it for completely sexual purposes either. when i was your age i had never seen a penis and was curious. i opted to see what one looked like on video though instead of asking the neighbor boy. point is, i didn't know what it did or how everything worked and i wanted to know without actually having to do it. but for the love of God, don't have sex... or any form of it because it doesn't sound like either one of you is ready for it and you'd probably just regret it.