I really like this guy, and he always invites me to do stuff with him, but then he talks about his ex while we. Am i just a friend to him? or , since hix ex is my best friend, is he using me to get back with her?
2006-07-20 03:00:34 · 14 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
anyone who talks a lot about someone else is aching to be with them .i think he's trying to sound you out to see if his ex has someone else or to get you to complain to her that he is always talking about her ......to get her back
2006-07-20 03:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite possibly. I think women have an intuition about the ex thing. I went on ONE date with a guy once and he brought up his ex a few times and I knew that he would get back together with her. I wasn't interested in him anyway so tried to be friends, about 2 weeks later he DID end up getting back with her. Just watch for any bitterness towards her, any past stories that include her, if he insults her at all, or compliments her more than just a brief mention, than you know he's still hung up.
2006-07-20 03:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does your best friend feel about you trying to date her ex? Why did they break up? These are questions you should ask your self before taking this relationship to another level. Friends are way more important than any guy, and what ever problems they had are probably going to be yours too. I would run away as fast as I could. He is way too much trouble to begin with.
2006-07-20 03:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by AMY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have relationships with friends exes, not in my world anyway. It's a no, no. Prioritize your life, realize how people can take advantage of a situation and know that there are definitely ulterior motives in the background. It would tell me that all is not what it seems and my self respect is more important than being a ploy to someone's games.....
2006-07-20 03:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not over her yet and he's finding comfort in you. The big question is, why are you hanging out with your best friend's ex? Are you just friends with him or looking for something more? If you're looking for something more then shame on you!
Focus more on being a better friend!
2006-07-20 03:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by annabelle75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it wrong but we guys tend to speak about the ex more than we should, especially if the other person knows them too...I'd pay attention to the direction of the conversation to determine if its info he wants off his chest or info to get back with his ex...good luck.
2006-07-20 03:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont do anything till you clear things up with your best friend,make sure shes okay with it, let her know whats going on, you dont want to loose her over a guy,.give it time and u will find out wht his intentions are,maybe he just needs a friend right now.. till then good luck
2006-07-20 03:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using u to get to his ex. he want u to go back and tell ur frnd what u have been talking about her.l think he wants her back. he after ur friend not you
2006-07-20 03:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like hes usin u to get back wit her sry to tell u that but i would get out of that right now cuz if u do date him then ur gonna ruin ur friendship wit ur friend so just get out of it as soon as u can cuz hes usin u to get back wit her
2006-07-20 03:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably after his ex...I'd stay away from him! Good luck!1
2006-07-20 03:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋