My girlfriend goes insane! And comes out with such random things i dont know what or how to respond... What do i do?
2006-07-20 02:55:08 · 20 answers · asked by Canadianguyuk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her lots of support, if she feels sad or upset, don't tell her not to feel this way. She needs to know that she is not the only person in the world to feel like this, rather than reasons that she is wrong. If she seems angry, she is probably frustrated. Listen to what she says, and ask her if there is anything you can do. She is probably just letting off steam, and needs to talk to you about what is wrong. She most likely isn't blaming you, but it may sound like it sometimes. Ask her what you could change to help her feel better, she will tell you if it is your fault or not!
Actually I just thought... If she is not feeling pre-menstrual at the moment, try talking to her, maybe tell her that you can see that she seems to go through a lot with PMS, and ask her what she would like you to do. She will appreciate that a lot, and it will let her know how much you care. Just make sure you ask in a caring way, not in an accusing way, ok?
Good luck x x x
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2016-12-10 12:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be supportive has she seen a doctor if not may be an idea to tactfully suggest it and possibly go with her if she would like you to (obviously you do not suggest this when she is going through pms)
also dont take what she says personally be as supportive as you can but you need to bear in mind she may feel the need for more space than normal
try to discuss the problem with her at an appropiate time making sure she realises you are not having a go at her but want to help her in anyway you can but that you need to know how you can help
all women are different so it is not easy to say exactly the best thing to do for her
2006-07-20 04:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by mumoftheyear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well PMs not all girls get it.Some get it worse than others.When your girlfreind goes through this the best thing to do is just be really nice.Because it only happens once a month right?So be caring and understanding.Tell her sweet things like i love you and you mean so much to me.Things like that.It will make her feel a lot better.
2006-07-20 02:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is don't get into any heavy conversations with her. Make her feel special and relaxed. Buy her chocolate. Tell her she is beautiful and that you love her. Rub her back, run her a bath and just keep it simple.
She'll appreciate it - trust me x
2006-07-20 03:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, there are several ways to deal with 'Ladies week'.
Be nicer than usual, BUT NOT FALSE!
Tell her you love her at the right times, don't just blurt it out.
Hold her and make her feel loved.
Treat her to a suprise.
Cook if it isn't something you do anyway.
Dont retaliate to any of her uncontrolled rants, just leave her to it.
Or emmigrate.
2006-07-20 03:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All of the above - be nice, don't argue back, do nice things, release control of the remote and keep schtum! oh and a bit of chocolate and wine would be an added bonus - good luck
2006-07-20 05:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by annabelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a good seeing to, PMS makes some women(well me anyways) feel like a b*ch on heat (apart from wanting to punch anyone and everyone of course)!
2006-07-20 03:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. talk it out to her. Tell her that she should let you know if the PMS is coming so that you will understand her more. There is nothing like a good communication.
2006-07-20 03:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just agree to everything that she says and tell her she is the most beautiful girl in the world, hey its only a couple of days.
2006-07-20 02:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by brownfox1126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋