and they to us? I hate finding out somebody is in a relationship even if it is someone i'm only dreaming of. Even so, finding out that they are happily married, whatever, breaks my heart until I forget about them. I hate it because I just want to daydream and I dont want any real relationships....
2006-07-20 02:45:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people, people im not getting involved with anyone. I just dont feel like going to bed every night thinking of nothing but this really attractive guy in this video.
2006-07-20 03:22:06 · update #1
but he happens to have a kid with some girl and they plan on getting married i guess idk
2006-07-20 03:26:43 · update #2
yes i guess so. dating would be easier and there wouldn't be any extramarital affairs.
2006-07-20 02:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Breaks your heart?
Why are you giving your HEART before you find out WHO and WHAT a man really is?
You can be "attracted" to anyone, married or in a relationship, or not....
but it is up to YOU to find out, and it is YOUR responsibiity to YOURSELF to
NOT get involved with people attached to someone else. duh !!!!
You should only give your love in small increments equal to what you are getting. An involved person can not give you the love they are givng to someone else.
Attraction = LUST and that's all.
LOVE = takes time to establish BEST-FRIENDS, TRUST, RESPECT, FAIRNESS, and an understanding of COMMITTMENT, with sharing and caring in and equal and balanced way.
You can not have mutual "LOVE" with someone who is attached to someone else. Just because you feel something, does not mean it is MUTUAL.
Get a grip on your feelings, and access how the other person really feels about you by the things above, and the way they treat you. If they are in another relationship, then they are treating your like
LEFTOVERS...or just using you.
Take good care of YOUR heart
stw
;)
2006-07-20 09:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in a relationship should wear something to indicate they are in a relationship. Much in the same way that engaged and married people wear rings.
2006-07-20 09:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mohammed R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it does suck. It truly does. I'm tired of meeting married men who lie and say that they are divorced.
2006-07-20 09:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, it wouldn,t. Sometimes nature, or God, has his way of attracting you with the person your supposed to be with, so listen to your gut, unless it's saying, "I want him because he might be a good test drive", or " I want her because he has her." Do you feel me on this one?
2006-07-20 10:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by LIL BOSSY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno if it wud but personally there are jus some ppl dat i get attracted to and wanna b wid and sometimes it works out but sometimes i hate it bcuz it messes up other ppls lives...anyways honestly i dont think i wud want to stop bein attracted to some of them...
2006-07-20 09:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but that ain't gonna happen.
2006-07-20 09:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the way the world is
2006-07-20 09:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think so
2006-07-20 09:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you partially..
2006-07-20 09:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋