If both parties are up for sex on the first date then why not? Does it make you any less of a person or does it just mean you are both attracted to each other. Why wait? Who is it that said it was wrong?
2006-07-20 02:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by Canadianguyuk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is supposed to be about commitment and love. Not about mutial attraction and lust. Having sex on the first date is slutty. You don't know the person at all on your first date.... how can you trust that they are a person that you will want to stay with or that they don't have any STDs that you can catch....
2006-07-20 02:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is no problem with sex on the first date.As long as both parties don't have regrets the next day.Which mostly most people will that is one reason why it is wrong.And then of course most guys are going to go and tell there friends and it will make the girl feel less of a person.Or maybe not.
2006-07-20 02:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already answered your own question but seems to me you are asking for reassurance. By asking for that, you are not sure and therefore I suggest it was wrong. However, provided the act was conducted safely and with the use of protection, and provided both parties were in agreement, there is nothing wrong.
2006-07-20 02:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Saudi Geoff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both parties consent and both are aware that sex on a first date doesn't necessarily lead to a second date, then there's not a damn thing wrong with it. have at it.
2006-07-20 02:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by justme_cheri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cultural and religious forces dictate that there should be a period of 'getting to know one another' before indulging in sexual activity, but I say . . . hell, why wait, if you're both up for it and use appropriate protection, and are not hurting anyone else there shouldn't be a problem. I did with my husband and we've now been married 20 years.
2006-07-20 03:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno... What's wrong with AIDS, Syphillis, Gonnoreah??? Whats wrong with herpes or having lil white bumps on your manhood. Doesn't the texture make it more pleasurable?? Hell to the Nah. Besides that, as far as I'm concerned.. I would like to be respected, and that takes time with men especially young ones. I respect myself, so should anyone else .
2006-07-20 02:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Muchacha Mala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing right or wrong as far as mutual consent is there in any relationship
2006-07-20 02:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by yog_sang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's rude, and it's not clever!
2006-07-20 02:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by tony212760 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋