2006-07-20 02:25:49 · 32 answers · asked by Chelski2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a big age gap.BUT age is just a number. if you love him and have things in common then why not give it a try?
2006-07-20 02:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm all for age ain't nothing but a number but 35 years older, its just too much. What do you talk about with someone that older than you? I think it might work at first but eventually you will start to treat her like a child that she might be! It usually ends up being a father - daughter relationship not a lovers relationship but that's just my opinion hey!
2006-07-20 02:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have loved older men before (even with a 20 year difference), but 35 years is a whole nother me. I want to say that the gap is too big, but I would follow my heart. If he is wealthy, people will say that is the only reason you are with him. Is it?
2006-07-20 02:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly it is too big a gap you wont be sexually satisfied , you may want to go out but he will be too tired to do it at some point also psychological torture of "what do people think of me" everytime you are in public together, however by the end of the day you got to weigh the pros and cons and choose the one with less cons
be wise that is a heavy matter that may change your life for good.
2006-07-20 02:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say, but yes...
Especially since the woman is like to spend at least 35 years... without him, after he's dead
The only people I know who did that are VERY rich old men with young bimbos.
Sorry for being frank
Love and kisses
2006-07-20 02:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by ln_de_troy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it quite normal for the male to be older than the female in any relationship. it only causes problems when the female is a lot younger than the male .say more that 15 yrs younger. what happens is the man gets older and doesn't want to go out or have friends in, so lonliness sets in for the younger female and that's when she decides he doesn't love her anymore. and she goes and finds someone younger whom she feels does love her enough to take her out. actually the older man does love her, he just doesn't want to go out all the time and he sees nothing wrong with just staying home. try doing things together at home , then go for a walk together or to the beach ,he's just getting old that's all
2006-07-20 02:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried that twice and found the young woman just thought I had a lot of money. The marriages did not last a year. I am not saying it is not possible, but you should consider what the younger person really wants.
2006-07-20 02:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by ringocox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite a big gap, but true love is in the most unexpected of places some of the time, you know?
2006-07-20 02:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by shadowrunneruk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a father daughter relationship that is brilliant.
If it is an adult relatioship if love exists then no age gap will matter
2006-07-20 02:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww why would you want to date a man that is 35 years older than you?
2006-07-20 02:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a huge age difference and arguments may turn into more of a father/daughter fight. Not a good thing. Just go to counseling, be yourself and make sure he's showing his true colors before you dive.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 02:28:23 · answer #11 · answered by pixiebdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋