there is this really hot guy in school and i like him but he likes my bezzie and blondes!! im already hot and funny and a good swimmer thats everything he wants in a girls so why cant i get him!!!! what is wrong with me!!!!!! Plz give me tips!! ive alreaddy told him i like him but he wont listen!! and i just cant go back to school to see him with the blonde girl or with my bezzie!! but my bezzie doesnt like him but when he started dating someone else she liked him!! my bezzie turned my back on me!! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-20 02:16:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I nedd guy help from a girl by the way but thanks for helping guys!! but this is a girl question!!!
2006-07-20 02:23:59 · update #1
A Bezzie is A BFF!!!!! Wihch aperantly in my case is just a back staber!!!!!! Im so mad with her! i almost had a chance with him but she took it and i dont know i just cant seem to forget him i think i love him i cant find someone else i really like him!!!!!!!
2006-07-20 02:26:06 · update #2
But i cant forget him!! i think i might love him!! i mean when the blonde girl got mad at him he cried he wasnt afraid to show his feeling in front of the whole school!! everything about him is so perfect i just cant get another guy i cant!!!
2006-07-20 02:28:44 · update #3
i really love him and cant let go and the ingnoring him might work!! i feel like im not good enough!!! i feel like if he thought i looked gross!! why wont he make a move!???!!!
2006-07-20 02:34:09 · update #4
i know i shouldnt cry but i cant help it i think i really love him!! but i cant flirt with other guys it wouldnt feel right!!! i dont know what to do i need more answers!!!
2006-07-20 05:43:12 · update #5
Gosh i found out that my bezzie said shell go out with the guy i like and shell go out with him since his g/f is not going to our school anymore shell ask him out !! gosh how im so so so mad!!! plz give me more advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-07-20 08:51:01 · update #6
O.K let see...........sounds like he likes that blonde girl alot!!!!!! If he doesn't care
about your feelings don't bring that out for a while!!!!!!!!! If he likes the other girl and hasn't noticed you maybe you need to change how you act or your attitude? You can try to ignore him for a while but that's not a good idea thou.Make him want you!!!!! Wear hot outfits and stuff be friends woth all hot guys and stuff don't talk to him about your feelings and he'll wonder why. Keep your bad friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You know why? Because that's the way you'll find out all the true details about their relationship!!!!!! Try to make her believe that you don't like him anymore. Everytime you talk to that guy act cool and pretend that you don't care that he has a g/f. You might flirt with other guys ( the hot ones) in front of him (even try to kiss one of them) that might make him jealous and he'll think that you don't like as much as you did before.DONT be so available to him!!!!! Don't tell him everthyng in details but keep hin guessing.that way he'll find you more interesting.But flirt with him a little :
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
http://www.ehow.com/tips_15903_3.html
http://menshealth.about.com/cs/stds/ht/howto_flirt.htm
http://www.datingmatchmakers.com/PrintArticle.aspx?ArticleID=231
http://www.spotmeet.com/dating_tips/teenage_dating_tips.htm
Play with him and your friends and guess what? When she'll broke up with you'll be there tohelp him out.Don't give up like i did on the guy I used to like!!!! Go for it don't let some blonde **** get the guy YOU like. But again don't be so available to him. Please don't be one of those girls who'll cry under the pillow when the guy they like is having fun with his g/f!!!!!!!! Try to go out and have some fun and play hard to get.
Good luck. :)
2006-07-20 03:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guy I know its hard but the guys just not interested u cant have em all.Whats a bezzie??Ur sister or something??
2006-07-20 09:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by JennyfferBCN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO THIS FOR REAL!!!!
Act like you're not interested in him anymore. Flirt with other guys when he's around (try for the hot ones). Before you know it he will be wanting to date you. Although when he first approaches you, don't act too concerned. Act like it's a friend thing and then he'll be wanting more.
He's not acting interested b/c he knows he can have you, once he thinks your over him, he'll be coming around.
Ppl don't realize what they have until it's gone.....prove it to him
2006-07-20 09:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and get another guy. If you told him your feelings and he did not take the chance, it is his lost, not yours.
If you tell him again or show him what you feel, he will be less interested in you than now. Get another guy, get more friends and forget about him.
2006-07-20 09:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur desperate-u think u need this guy-will u die if u dont get him? if u stop breathing will u? well most of all you need Jesus to feel good about yourself and life-it helped me alot
take care and be the wonderfull girl u r ok Jasmin? david
2006-07-20 09:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the other guy. If he doesn't listen to you, then he doesn't deserve you.
2006-07-20 09:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him go! if u continue he'll still ignore u so hook up with someone else and see wat he'll do.
2006-07-20 09:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋