I want to kill myself. at my dads and want to go back to mom told her and he found out by mom calling my grandpa now they hate me everyone hates me.
2006-07-20 02:07:11 · 21 answers · asked by mouse7620 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no one hates you they are just worried about you, dont kill yourself.... life is hard but not worth dying... whatever you are going through. it to shall pass... things can only get better.....
i wanted to when i was in my teens, and sure life is better... nothing should make you want to take your life... talk to someone, its always good to talk it out.
2006-07-20 02:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dear
Suicide is not a Solution of any problem.
From the one line you have written.. it comes very loud that somehow you feel everyone around you hates you.
If we go by this notion for a moment, is this the only reason why you hate yourself and wish to end your life?
I don't think so.
Please understand and belive that YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON FOR YOURSELF.
No one in this world can take care of your interests better than you.
Have you ever attempted talking to yourself?...its a fun. If you find it difficult then start putting down your feelings on a paper or better still ... a diary.
The objective is to clean your brain so that you can again start to think positively.
There is no trick in positive thinking. Just put down all the negative issues of your life on paper.... try to identify the problem. If you can't identify then may be you are the problem (just kidding)...take help from friends (I am also included in that :-) ) and once the problem is identified... put some action points to solve the problem. If the problem cannot be solved, then its just an uncontrollable unique factor in our life similar to getting caught in rains. You cannot do anything about it so why worry about it? Try finding some ways around it ... and let me tell you that you can do it if you think you can.
Just believe in yourself... as they say God is inside you ... so trust god, trust yourself and try to trust others. Relationships are all about trust.
and hey ... believe me you look great when you smile!! :-)
Cheers
Saurabh
2006-07-20 02:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Saurabh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your dads family is just hurt that you would want to go back to your moms. This court ordered visitation stuff really sucks at times. My daughter feels the same way at times and I always tell her I will come get her if it gets bad. But she is 13, not sure of your age. Its hard when there are different rules at both households, but I am sure both your parents love you and want you to enjoy spending time with them. Try talking to your dad or just tell him the reasons you want to go to your moms, maybe he will try to help change some things to make you feel more comfortable. Takes alot of compromising. Dont hate yourself for your feelings, they are normal, you are normal and have a right to feel whatever you are feeling. None of this was your fault and hating yourself is unfair. You had no control over any of this and its a parents duty to help you through life dealing with seperate households.
God bless you sweety.. Just be honest like you are and hopefully they will work with you.
2006-07-20 02:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't have you the love you. It's just that they don't want to see you hurt so they get mad. It's the wrong response but that is what parents do. But them being mad doesn't mean that they hate you. I am sure that they think of you as the most wonderful beautiful young lady that they have ever set eyes on, and if you killed your self it would be like killing them.
Just know that you are loved no matter how badly they show it.
Keep your chin up every thing will turn out OK
2006-07-20 02:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by kwingfan13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to speak with someone other than family. Find another trusted adult or friend. Think about the joys you have in your life. I'm sure being alive and having these joys outweigh not being alive and not having them. You may not realize it but there are many people who depend on you and love you and need for you to be alive. I know you're angry with your parents, but calm down and think of how hurt you would be if something happened to them. Now think of how double their hurt will be without you here. I promise, by this time next year this problem will be forgotten.
Nobody's life is perfect. It's what you make of it that determines if it's a happy one or a sad one. Make it a happy one!
2006-07-20 03:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by annabelle75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't hate you sweetie. They are just scared and worried and don't know the right way to express how they feel right now. It's almost as scary to be a parent as it is to be a kid. I'm a parent and sometimes I get pretty scared of how my kids react. The best thing you could do for your situation is to sit down with your parents and discuss with them things in your life that are upsetting you or worrying you. Being open and honest with them may be difficult at first, but they will trust and respect you more for being upfront with them. It ends up better for you and for them. Good luck hon! Hope I helped some.
2006-07-20 02:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, sweety...please do NOT kill your swelf u dont know how many people u are goign to affect if u that i dont know u but im telling u one thing if i found ur question and here i am answering it " GOD LOVEs U "... no matter how strong the battle is no matter how dark ur life is there is always a way out ..im 22 and my life hasnt been easy..been threw alot had people hate me, back stab me, betraye me , cheat on me and be fake..but i realized the only person i wansnt givin a chance to was the Lord Jesus CHrist and with him im happy ...pleas mama email me at melyprz@yahoo.com and we can talk ... please... dont do this to ur self..
2006-07-20 02:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by ChuLAD3P0nC3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't do that, Killing your self isn't the answer. I don't hate you and I am sure your family doesn't hate you. Your family is worried about you. Many people don't hate you. Now think positive and better about your self.
2006-07-20 02:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to be harsh but suicide is the cowards way out. Your family doesn't hate you, they are probably just concerned for your well being. You have to try and make yourself feel better and if you can't do it on your own, seek professional help. it is not shamefull to ask for help, only shamefull when you don't...
Good Luck, I wish you all the best
2006-07-20 02:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey we got the same name well dont kill your self that is being stuped tell your mom and dad how you fell okay i am sorrtok
from kristin
to kristin
2006-07-20 02:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kristin B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋