I love myy boyfriend...But I'm starting to talk to my ex boyfriend [[who I had a bad break up with]] and we're starting to be friends agian. Is that okayy? Or am I being a bit*h?
2006-07-20 01:17:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on if you are in a serious, committed relationship with your current boyfriend. If you are, then you need to be upfront with him about conversing with your boyfriend and your motivation should be for closure, not to be "friends" with you ex-boyfriend.
No, but you are not being a "bad" person, by any means; most likely just confused, which is normal.
Too many times both sexes keep ex's as "friends" for a back-up in case their relationship with whom they are now with does not work out and it prevents them from developing a true, deep, meaningful, committed relationship with the person they are commiting to.
A true, non-same sex friend is someone you have never been romantically involved with; otherwise, you are could be headed for trouble.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 01:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're defintely being a bit&h! You onbviously not over your ex, you still had feelings for him that you covered up pretty well. And the only reason why your with this other guy is because he is your rebound. So darling, my advice to you is, take a time out and think things through before you break any hearts and then you find out that it was the wrong heart you broke. And then all is lost. Best of luck amigo
2006-07-20 01:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a big deal as long as you current boufrnd knows that.. But since hes ur ex now,there has to be some limitations.. I dont mind my girlfrnd being frnds with her ex.. Its better that way for me..So when the uncomfortable feeling when we meet him will be lesser.. Just b matured about it..
2006-07-20 01:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_Touch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i became into in a courting smiler to that.... i became into with him for 2and a a million/2 years..to make an exceedingly long tale short i ended up ditching all my guy acquaintances just to be with him...that meant deleting them off msn, no telephone calls and no touch in any respect... i've got not talked to a guy in 2yrs besides him...He became into very insecure besides.. yet he dealt with issues in a distinctive way.. he became into greater of the offended jealous sort...even nonetheless i gave up my acquaintances n rather plenty each thing else for him he nevertheless wasn't chuffed...he'd nevertheless get jealous...it relatively is why we not at all went everywhere jointly...if a guy appeared at me...he'd initiate a combat with me... via the final couple of months of our courting i had became right into a bitter and extremely offended individual ... anyhow my finished factor is be careful on what your giving up for one individual ... you ought to no longer even final and you ought to finally end up like me bitter and friendless... no longer so solid... believe is fundamental in a courting and if he won't have the ability to then possibly you may locate somebody who does believe you if issues don't get from now on effective... terrific of success Hun : )
2016-10-08 03:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by lyon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with talking to an ex.....that is, unless your new boyfriend is bothered by it. If he is, don't do it. It can only hurt your present relationship. Why would you want to risk that if you love him?
2006-07-20 01:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with talking to your ex boyfriends/girlfriends as long as you only keep it on a friendship level- regardless if you are in a relationship with some else. don't worry- its okay = )
2006-07-20 01:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by acrossfiveyears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweety... as long as u know ur broundries and u think u can handle talking to them without disrespecting ur boyfriend than its okay!!!....
P.S.
" DONT EVER LEAVE WHAT U GOT FOR WHAT U HAD CAUSE WHAT U HAD WILL LEAVE U FOR WHAT HE HAD"
2006-07-20 01:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by ChuLAD3P0nC3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok,as long as u guys know the boundaries/the limit between u guys,that's fine.Be friends is ok,but if u guys talk very personal,i think that's wrong.I don't think it's really necessary to talk to your ex-bf unless if u have to,u've got ur own life,he has got his own life.
2006-07-20 01:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with that at all. Your just friends, right?
2006-07-20 01:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by liltopazmandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you want, this is a free country.
2006-07-20 01:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by mouthbreather77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋