I'm getting a lot of mixed reactions. Some friends don't mind and some do. The truth is, I'm a 27 year old virgin and she's clearly not. She's ready to settle down and I have no problem having it to be me. What's your thoughts? I've known her for 6 months now and I think it's time for me to her to be my girlfriend since we get along so well and we flirt so much I know we have a lot in common. She knows I'm a virgin and willing to wait since she mentioned she's not talking or interested with anyone else after meeting me. I think the age thing bother her and that's what's keeping her from making something serious earlier. What's your take on the age thing?
2006-07-20 00:58:19 · 18 answers · asked by the_blue_eyed_papi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 and a half years is nothing mate. if you 2 get on well that is all that is all that matters. go for it
2006-07-20 01:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling, I am 30yrs. old and my boyfriend is 40yrs. old, imagine ten years gap but there's no dull moment when we're together. It's not the age gap dear, it's on how you get along with each other and that's the most important thing in a relationship and besides 3 years doesn't make any difference at all, isn't it!
i think you are just being paranoid also thinking that you are still a virgin. If you go into a serious relationship with her and if she does really loves you you will learn a lot and it will open your mind and your heart on what relatioship and love is really all about. Dont listen to annybody's opinion, listen to what you really want in life. It's your own happiness which the most priority.
2006-07-20 01:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother and his wife are also 3 years apart,my brother now is 30 and his wife is 33,they got married after 1 year relationship ,they've been married for 6 years now and they have a 4 months old beautiful daughter.So don't worry too much,it's only 3 years apart,the maturity level are gona be the same when u're an adult.Just go for it if u guys love each other
2006-07-20 01:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im falling in love with someone 3 years older than me 2, i say go for it. age ai't nothing but a number, and you don't have to worry about your partner being immature or playing games with you or your emitions. If she's willing to wait for you, then you must be special, so just date her, and then maybe you guys will get married and you won't have to worry about it anymore. Don't let the age thing bother you. If ya'll was meant to be together, then its gonna happen. Don't wory about it.
2006-07-20 01:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by nooknook92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As to age alone, it's not even close to being too old. Many successful relationships exist today with a much wider age span, and the decision is strictly between the two of you.
2006-07-20 01:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what others think, but YOU seemed concerned or hesitant about it for some reason. 3.5 years isn't enough of an age gap to worry about--for the sake of age.
Are there lifestyle maturity issues, though?
Is she worried you will, at some point, want the chance to "sow your wild oats."? You are a man of conviction, you may have to work at assuring her that is real. (women are cyncial, but not without cause....)
good luck!
2006-07-20 01:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the deal here anyway??? Its not like your 16 anymore. And its not like its a 20 years age difference. If you feel you have something there, enjoy each others company and see where it goes. Good Luck.
2006-07-20 01:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number as long as you love her and she loves you and beside it's only 3 years. Good luck
2006-07-20 01:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by caribbeangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is a number darlin, u cnathelp what ur heart feels ...... cliche yes i know but all true ............ if its meant to be it will be inthe long term btu take things slow have fun fool around make love its allgood as longas u bothare consenting.. besides their are things to be said about an older woman!
2006-07-20 01:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 00:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋