me and my ex boyfriend had a relationship for a year and last month i was a total cow and ruined it. i dumped him and made him doubt me i was ill though and had exams. i have apologised and want to restart. i dont recognise him now though- he saying he loves me 'butnot how i wnat him to, not how he shud at the moment'. he said he knows he should put it behind him but i have to understand his hurt (i do)he saying he thinks he will but cant promise anything.(why> if he loves me) he needs itmre to figure it. arggh
i want to know whether i can get the love of my life back. he did love me but is questioning it because of what ive done n im scared ive lost him because hes sooo detached. how can i prove he can trust me when he wnats so much space? do men dwel on the bad stuff int hsi time, if hes scared hes going to convince himslef not to give me a 2nd chance. what do i do
2006-07-20 00:57:57 · 5 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ye but if u l,ove someone u be willing to rebuild right
2006-07-20 01:06:17 · update #1
I am really sorry, but I believe you lost him for good. . . . It takes ages to build trust, and takes less than a moment to destroy it. . . .
2006-07-20 01:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Romeo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made him suffer, so now he wants to make you suffer back. He has no desire to get back with you, he just wants to keep you around as a side piece until he finds something better. He's not sure if he can "love you in the way you want him too", but that won't stop him from banging you when he's horny.
2006-07-20 01:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 10:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the SPACE he thinks he wants. He'll come round. If he doesn't then move on.
2006-07-20 01:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time - let him decide. Of course he is afraid of getting hurt a second time.
2006-07-20 01:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋