You are actually a very smart man. Make no mistake about it, you've made a wise choice. Older women are more mature, they usually are financially secure & confident in their abilities. They know what they want sexually & how to get it. There is a good chance that they won't play head games with you or struggle with you to keep your attention alll of the time. If you have other plans for an evening, an older woman will most likely have things she can do to keep busy instead of whining because you aren't there hovering about her. And the sex will be so much better than anything you could get with a 20-something. There is NOTHING wrong with you - love whom you want, be happy with your decisions & your choices!! Wish I'd met more guys like you!
2006-07-20 01:22:16
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answered by pumpkin 6
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Not according to a book I am reading at the moment. While it would be unusual for this to turn into a long term relationship, the author suggests that most guys enjoy the idea of having a relationship with an older woman, and in fact the sex can be a lot better than that with a younger woman. Why am I interested? Cos I have just had my own little fling with a younger man, and let me tell you, it was sensational. Hang in there, and good luck.
2006-07-20 00:43:34
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answered by Elle 2
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All depends on what you mean by older 5-20 years OK. Older people don't play games as much and have tons of experience. I have never dated anyone within a 4 year age range and find nothing wrong with it. Dating older men gave me a higher self respect and self-esteem but I never dated anyone who was my parents age if that's what you like someone your mothers age or grandmothers age then get help. Otherwise enjoy and learn. Demi Moore is much older like 25 years and there do not seem to be anything wrong with that.
2006-07-20 00:44:12
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answered by Anonymous
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There is nothing wrong with finding older women more attractive than your own aged women.
Older women will have more expericence,life knowledge and sense.
They will respect you and depending on how old they are,all the boozed up weekends are gone from our lives and a sensible drink in the home is more on our wave length.
Us older women know what we want and understand how to get it.
As i say it does depend on how much older they are and also what kind of person they are.
Years ago i used to go out with a younger guy and he love the prestige of 'bagging' an older woman,me,i got exaclty what i wanted out of the relationship and it worked for both of us.
Nowadays,i go for older men,my current partner is 10 years older than me and we have been together for over 6 years and i DEFINELTY works for me.
2006-07-20 01:03:52
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answered by freerange00720002000 3
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I think people like u are either passionate about older women for sex only or u cannot find the right girl at ur age
2006-07-20 01:27:02
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answered by ZONGO 1
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If you are over the age of 18 then it is okay. A older woman is more experience and wont send you through alot of changes. Been there Done that ! Have fun with it and don't be shy to take a chance ! I am sure you will enjoy every minute of it.
2006-07-20 00:41:13
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answered by ressie re 2
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There is nothing wrong with you at all. A lot of boys/men are attracted to older women.
2006-07-20 00:41:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Stop fantasising and do it- lots of older women like young men- they fantasise about teaching you young squirts the ropes.
2006-07-20 00:43:05
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answered by Anonymous
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no, this question is pretty simple. Your one of the few mature guys out there that wants a mature woman in his life. In other words your a total mommy's-boy and you prefer a chick to be a motherly figure to you. I hope I dnt mess up your chances with the chicks on this site?
2006-07-20 00:40:20
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answered by Anonymous
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No there is nothing wrong with wanting an older women.
My wife is 5 years older than I. :)
2006-07-20 00:41:24
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answered by bill45310252 5
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