i am a 25yr girl doing well in my proffession. i m having affair from college times with a boy who is B.com graduate, not financially well off. I am only child of my parents so my salary will go to my parents. my parents are not happy about this boy. But i feel that since we have been frindly for so long time will it be good to break off now? i am very confused, please help.
2006-07-20 00:28:11 · 10 answers · asked by devisharvani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes finances are very very important in life....the sooner u realise that the better...be real cos love is a strong feeling but so is anguish, anger, frustration and depression..all arising cos u cannot fulfill needs due to lack of money and education ..
It is very important in life to have a husband whom you can respect cos love is also strong only when u respect the person too...but a loser for a husband will not be able to keep ur respect for long, already ur parents are not going to respect ur husband and it's likely that ur friends and relatives will sympathise with u but not like or respect ur husband...how will u feel stuck with a man like that for 30-40yrs?
2006-07-20 00:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Nisha 4 · 10⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing well in your profession and your parents object to the boy who is not doing well financially even though he is a graduate, then the picture I'm getting is that the parents problems with the guy is that he is or will be a financial drain on you. Is that correct? If it is correct, do they have legitimate cause for concern? Are there prospects that they guy will become productive? ie. make an income? Just because you have been friendly for so long is not a reason to continue a relationship. You continue a relationship because each of you gets out of it what you want/need. Each gives and each receives. Parents don't like to see their kids get hurt. Are their concerns in this case legitimate?
2006-07-20 00:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..Passionate romanticists and poets claimed that love can move mountains..and withers atrocities.When love is strong between a man and a woman, both would work towards making everything good for their benefit and taking good care of each other. The marital union is always plagued with different kinds of problems. Financial Difficulty is the hardest to bear for most couples especially when no food is on the table and there are hungry mouths to feed. But when a couple love each other, both would work towards a solution to this problem. When you love someone, you wouldn't want the object of your love to feel pain and sorrow. You would strive hard to provide good things for the one you love and you couldn't afford to hurt him/her with your in- actions. Love is a strong and powerful feeling that allows us to go beyond our own selfish needs. Being friendly with a boy is not a strong reason for marriage. Most couples comit the mistake believing that one grows into the feeling as you grow old. Remember that marriage is a commitment that allows you to show your love for one another...
2006-07-20 00:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by maville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused as well. Finances should not be but are a cause of great argument in a lot of relationships. Money is actually the only thing I argue with my husband. If you live with your parents you are obligated to follow thier rules. Otherwise. You're a grown woman! Do what you want!
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2016-01-13 19:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me first say " where did u go to school, because your spelling is terrible. " I truly feel that you may need to focus more on yourself and let him focus on him. If I was you I would just pick up a dictionary and study. " Life is to short to cause yourself problems, so move on girlfriend.
2006-07-20 00:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set your priorities straight. Ask yourself what is more important to you - your family or your male friend. You didn't mention why your parents are not happy about your friend?
2006-07-20 00:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not put ur question to these white dogs and bitches.they will not help u solve the problems but will find mistakes in ur spelling...goood luck and do what ur heart says...discuss this with ur b/f definately..maybe he has a better solution
2006-07-20 00:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by lim x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your crazy brake if off as your parents know best and you know what to do in your heart.
2006-07-20 00:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by percyhz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋