2006-07-20 00:12:16 · 34 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men Do commit!!! When they meet the right woman - who in my opinion needs to be pretty independant and not clingy!!! Also a woman needs to keep herself in tiptop shape to KEEP them interested and provide loving on tap and not complain when they want to go to footie or beering with the lads!
In other words - unless they're some really special guy - us ladies are better off single!!! Less hassle! Play em at their own game!!
2006-07-20 00:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
They don't want the responsibility! Atleast at the moment that they're in now! I'm just assuming you're speaking about a relationship that you're in - they do not want the responsibility of a commitment at that time - could change at another time! Men and women commit when they're truly ready on their own - you don't have to convince them, argue with them, or tell them how rotten they are for not committing! The time is evidently not the right time in their life - no one else can make it!
2006-07-20 00:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by twinklecomfort 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lena
I'm sorry but not all men are the same I've been with my girlfriend now for 25 years i know that i said girlfriend but neither of us want to get married because we feel that what's a bit of paper we love each other and care for each other and that is what counts
obviously you have to find the right one before you can expect any commitment from anyone and when you do you will know OK
if you feel you have found the right one and he doesn't want to commit then he ain't the right one for you, sorry that's my opinion.
i wish you all the luck in finding Mr right
take care Lena
2006-07-20 00:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Marius Van Romanus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are not ready to commit. And some men go through their entire lives not being able to commit to anything. If your guy won't commit and that is what you want, it is best for you to leave the relationship and move forward.
2006-07-20 00:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is wait. Some men are afraid, some men are cool and brave. For instance, consider me? :) I am a simple person and would like to take my time in knowing a person more and more, before asking her out or asking her to marry me? These things take time. Be patient coz the more longer you wait, the more stronger a relation is :) . Be happy that the guy is still around you and loves you :) . RELAX :)
If you're still concerned that its been ages now, that you;re together and he still has not "popped" the question, ask him INDIRECT questions about this relationship? :) For eg. ask him, "Do you believe in long-term relationships?" It depends what type of guy you are also in love with. Is he an outgoing person and all? How does he feel around you? Ask him questions about, how he feels, but make sure, THEY ARE ALL INDIRECT ones :).
Good luck though and if you still need help, contact me at cooldude16680@hotmail.com :)
Bye and take care!
2006-07-20 00:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask the men who won't commit. There are so many ans and circumstances.
With too much women willing to entertain men disregarding their status is def one factor to non-commitment
2006-07-20 00:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by MissPussUK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to be tied to just one woman. Men think they are like the tea kettle and women are like the tea cups, so they should be surrounded by as many women as possible. Of course they can't and won't commit when they have this kind of mentality.
2006-07-20 00:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you say some men, because i am commited to my girl. and you know some ladies do commit also. it how it work sorry you just found losers at this time but guys do commit
2006-07-20 00:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us men are happy to commit to the right person, when they come along... lol
2006-07-20 00:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will commit to the one he truly loves and wants to spend his life with.
2006-07-20 00:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋