im 14 & bi i only have 2 trust worthy friends but only 1 knows i need my moms help with this but every thing i tell her she tells her bf i like her bfs daughter but i think shes striaght im so confused & dont know what to do my friend encouraged me to do this
2006-07-20 00:10:23 · 10 answers · asked by BOBO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could just be curious. You're only 14 and it is perfectly natural to be curious or sexually attracted to the same sex. Give it a little bit of time before you go through the nerves of telling your mum or anyone else. I am bisexual, though, and just know that it is nothing to be ashamed of.
2006-07-20 00:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 how do you know what you are. Yes, I know we are sexually attracted to others because I am 14 too. Just hang in there. If it's what you choose have fun with sex. Sneek around! Just remember if you really are bi break it to your mom when you are about 18.
2006-07-20 00:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by gatechgirl13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carefully. Tell your mom that you are confused, but you think you may be bisexual. Tell her you need her to understand and not judge you. You need her support. Tell her you haven't acted on your feelings (even if you have) because you needed to talk to her first. She can't change how you are, but you do need your mom in your corner. Every girl needs her mom! So talk to her and get it out in the open. It'll be easier than if she walks in on you with a girl someday.
2006-07-20 00:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm bi and that i'm retaining it to myself subsequently far. you may want to not come out till you're smooth telling people. only keep in mind that it makes issues way a lot less complicated if people comprehend, your mom might want to nonetheless love who no count number what you imagine.
2016-10-15 00:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wise that you tell your mother. your only young have fun do the whole experiment thing. later when your like 17 18 in college tell her. but for now have fun sneeking around. she wont understand if you tell her. in the next few years you might not even feel that way anymore. and it goes so quick.
2006-07-20 00:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do anything yet.Maybe u r and maybe your not bi.Alot of people feel this way at your age.Take your time with relationships and time will tell what u r.Someone i new when he was 18 did not know for sure.He ended up being straight.
good luck and always be careful who u tell and what u say.
2006-07-20 00:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by pedro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know your bi? your only 14... give it time
2006-07-20 00:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 you have no idea what you are. and you should not be having sex with anyone. get yourself somehelp
2006-07-20 00:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by rmisbach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if she's truly your mom she'll understand your sexual life you just don't like guys and that's totally normal she'll just have to deal with it
2006-07-20 00:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by qnzlilmami018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her, go lick carpet when she is not around!
2006-07-20 00:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by obi-won kenobi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋