my boy friend is unfaithfull,un approgetic,and i dought if he loves me.but i try to do away with him,but when he reapeares my feelings for him come back and i tend to badly want him,yet his awrong person,what can i do [help me]
2006-07-19 23:52:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes the things we love the most hurt us the most and the only way to stop it is to cut them loose.
I have a mate that has had four gf's and has cheated on every one of them yet he's the sweetest guy you'll ever meet and every thing you could ask for.. proving if they cheat once they'll probably do it again i know it can be really hard to say no when they reappear and its gona hurt a lot but if you reall want to be free of all the hurt you have to build up a whole lot of will power and just learn to say no. and move on.. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-20 00:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a question alot a girls go though i mean alot i have a time or two my best adive is to tell your self that your young and that you dont need someone around all the time you need to know that you are one of a kind and that he doesnt see you that way and you need someone that does so give him the boot i know its hard but u need to for you dont think about how he says he loves you if he did then he would be with you and you alone but he cant hes gotten away with it so he thinks he can and it will never get better he will keep doing your his safe spot he knows that you will forgive and he uses that dont do it hun just tell him when he shows up that your looking for mr rite or for mr rite now and he isnt it dont let him walk beck in to your heart he will just brake it again your better then that
2006-07-20 00:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, tell yourself you a good, valuable, worthwhile human being who deserves more than a cheat and a liar. My suspicion is that there is a little girl deep down inside you who doesn't feel good about herself because of some trauma or bad teaching by parents (she was yelled at: "you're NO GOOD and never will be" or worse or some such abuse). That little girl needs some help. I'll tell you, YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN A LIAR AND A CHEAT FOR A BOYFRIEND!
2006-07-20 00:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he can't chage his bad habits then he'l lose u for good. i know u might have said this to him a million times, but this time show him its no joke. if he doesnt change or even try dont get back with him as u might know by now you cant chage him.
2006-07-19 23:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid all contact with him - no phonecalls, emails, visits, etc... It will be hard at first and it'll hurt but when it does, think to yourself, "he's unfaithful and unapologetic". Use those feelings to your advantage and find yourself a man who respects you.
2006-07-19 23:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go back to him
2006-07-19 23:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋