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He's meet someone new, like 2 weeks ago, l want him back so bad!!!
Do they only come back begging if it was love?

2006-07-19 23:38:08 · 27 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

27 answers

thats impossible really. the other person just has to fall in love with u

2006-07-19 23:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's funny how that special person that you thought the world of is so quickly forgotten when time goes by. You can't make someone fall in love with you. That's just the stuff of Hollywood movies and romance novels. Have you talked to him about how you feel? That's about the only thing I think you can do. If he doesn't want you back, then move on. Trust me, I've been around the block a few times, and the brooding and scheming to get someone back is only wasted energy. Take some time now that you're single and explore the world around you, develop your own identity, follow your passions, follow your interests, begin new ones, make friends, and everything will be okay... maybe even better without him

2006-07-19 23:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by porterismmovement 2 · 0 0

You cannot make someone fall in love with you. He has moved on, if he comes back, you will need to look seriously at why it fell apart in the first place. You need to move on too, painful though it is. Did you want him back before he met this other person? Or is it that you didn't want him, but now that someone else has him, you remember the special times you shared at first and think that they will be experiencing them together, and that is what you want back? Unless they are very special, and therefore meant to be, chances are that those feelings they may or may not be having for each other will fade over time. Could be he just took up with her because he was lonely, or is just feeding his carnal instrincts for a while. You owe it to yourself to find out not only what you want, but also what you need to make a relationship work for you, and do all you can to achieve that. No doubt there are areas of your personality, that if you are honest with yourself, need looking at, and possibly changing, in order to offer someone your best. Then think about the qualities you need in a man that make you feel secure enough to fall in love again, and don't settle for anyone who doesn't have them, as chances are, you'll end up in the same place. You deserve someone who truly wants to be with you, not with someone else. Learn all you can from what you had with him, become a fuller and better person, and seek someone who is fuller and better themselves when you are ready. I know it hurts, and time does heal, but this is the way you need to do it if you don't want a life of repeated love mistakes. God Bless.

2006-07-19 23:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tefi 6 · 1 0

There is a time and place for everything. It would seem as this was not the time for this particular person. In days and weeks to come you will discover why that is so. You may discover that things weren't so great, once you've had the proper amount of time to reflect. And believe me, the "right" person will come along. But probably not when you want them to and it probably won't be who you think it should be. But, when it happens, all the waiting will be worth it.

2006-07-19 23:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by hvnmorefun 3 · 0 0

Sorry hon, he's gone.
Even if he did come back, would it be worth it? Or would you be constantly wondering when will be the next time he'll find someone else?
It's a horrible feeling, but give yourself some time and you will meet someone who really appreciates you and doesn't go running off every five minutes.
You're worth more than that! Let him go and get someone better.
Take care kid.

2006-07-19 23:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by nev 4 · 0 0

You cant. Nobody can make another person want another, unless its just for sex which is temporary. Love can be mistaken as physical attraction which is empty. A person will really feel love when there is security and stability. And this does not happen overnight. It is nurtured through familiarity (which does not entail years of partnership-- sometimes it could just be months). And to tell you frankly being in-love does not require fireworks. That's too idealistic!!!!

2006-07-20 00:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by armenia 1 · 0 0

The problem dear is you can't!!!
If you can contact him, there may be a reason why he does not wish to proceed any further.

You never know, it may be love and he could be in the same position as you, but don't loose sleep over it. If you likes you, he will make a reappearance!!

p.s why do you want him back so bad!!!!!

2006-07-19 23:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by MissPussUK 1 · 0 0

Sorry darling, you don't make someone fall in love with you. It's time for you to close that door and move on to something else.
One tip of advice, no one will fall in love with you if you're miserable and desperate so get a grip on your life, enjoy yourself and then...

2006-07-19 23:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Littlegreydevil 2 · 0 0

I've loved 56 women and every time it just got better and better. I spent so long looking for the one, my soul mate, you will find someone new, just smile at anyone you fancy, men love that, it's their dream and you are on an adventure that will take you to the one. just love the adventure, you found one and you can find better ones, it's too soon for you to have chosen the one, be brave, be strong and confident and you will soon be having so much fun that you won't even remember why you cried.

2006-07-19 23:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try being open tell him how you feel if he feels the same way then Good luck! If not then there's no way you can force love.I'm sure you'll soon meet someone new who'll be crazy about you!

2006-07-20 00:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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