So my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he had to get some issues sorted out..some insecurity issues. He says that he wants to be friends with me right now and he said he'd be fine with me dating other guys. I know this isnt just about those personal issues he has to deal with..i honestly think it's also that he wanted to be single for a while and date around. Now he and I never said if we'd get back together or not..but i wanna know what you guys think. Do you think he and I have a good chance of getting back together? That maybe after he's got everything figured out in his life and he's maybe been with another girl..or a few other girls..that he'd decide to get back with me? He says he hasnt lost feelings for me, that he still really likes me but that he needs to deal with these issues because they've been there for a looong time..even before the last relationship he had. and he thought he could push them out of his head, but now he realizes he has 2 do something about them
2006-07-19 23:10:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just did you a big, big favor...and it is all the things you mentioned...no less...no more. He needs his space to figure out something that probably doesn't have anything to do with you...and you must give him this space. He is permitting you to explore other options...just as he has reserved this as an option for himself. Respect his honesty. Some things are exactly as stated...and if there is more...you will have plenty of time to know this...and he sounds like a real nice guy. So don't put your life on the back burner...move forward...and allow things to unfold as they should, 'kay?
2006-07-19 23:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, I have experienced that except that I'm the guy.
I broke up with my GF (girlfriend) because I felt that she doesn't love me and I felt the same way, too.
After that, I had a new relationship but then I started to miss her and now I know. I still love her.
I know... How stupid can I be? And now, I'm winning her heart back from a guy that I have exactly don't have any details or info about.
And about your question... Yes...
But if you two don't get back, well... Just good luck and wish you a new and happier relationship.
2006-07-20 06:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Grey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is stringing you along, to keep you as a fallback. Get rid of him. He is a boy, playing boy's games. Find a man, that way you know that you are loved and always will be. AGE does not make a man. But the lack of age does make a boy. Just something to remember when looking for the next love.
2006-07-20 06:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bet that after he sees or hears about you on a date with someone else he will regret his decision and want you back. The thing you need to do is forget about him and move on, if he comes back later then you make the decision to have him back or not. Don't ever put your life on hold for someone else.
2006-07-20 06:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by RANDALL S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there's probably another girl waiting in the wings for him. He's probably checking to see if things work out better with her. You should find someone else to date and show him what he's missing.
2006-07-20 06:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think there is a fair chance that you 2 will get together again. that is why he has not shut out completely but left the door open to reunite honorably.
2006-07-20 06:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by narik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not really interested but just wanted a nice way to end the relationship. wouldn't count on him ever coming back (but i suppose he might if he doesn't find someone else).
2006-07-20 06:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by well_clever_i_am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line guys hat chicks that second guess them selves very very unattractive, so is what he means by you need to sort stuff out is, You need to tuffin up get some self confidence..
2006-07-20 06:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by ( ((G-Force)) ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy but believe me, he's just letting you down easy, but keeping you on a short leash just in case. find someone else. it may even make him jealous and want you back... if you still want him back by then
2006-07-20 06:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u dont have any chance to get him back. coz, he doesnt get interest talking to u, it is for u r boring in discussion tasks.
2006-07-20 06:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋