i never had sex before, im 21 it will be my first time im an indian gurl nd he 2 he wants me 2 go with him for a tour of 5 days nd v have decided 2 do it our first time there is it right step before marrage? nd vr serious 4 last one year nd, in his past he even had a serious gf for three year whom he had sex with her in continuty when they use 2 meet as it was a long distance relation but then due 2 girl mistake they both apart , so suggest me should i take this step
2006-07-19 22:55:40 · 12 answers · asked by cute_girlie_in_tension 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can go for it if you feel you are mature enough to handle the consequences. Think of what if you end up in a break up later on & marry someone else., indian males are not that broad minded who would accept a non virgin bride.
Your being 21 makes u legally adult, think once more, that are you mature enough. anyways sex is always fun, may be you make him your slave with ur tricks in bed.
happy *******
2006-07-19 23:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would only do it if I felt like I should.
You have waited a long time not to have sex, I believe if I was you I would save it until marriage.
Think of it this way, what if you all brake up? Then there you are all alone, and you have destoryed your self having sex with him, and wishing you would have waited until marriage! You could even get pregnent, and yes your first time..
I would wait, but it's up to you..
Good Luck & Make The Right Choice!
2006-07-19 23:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also lost my virginity when I was 21 and on a tour like yours excatly but its all about feelings..........if you feel you are ready to do this then go ahead but dont let that guy push you into doing it. I felt I was ready and thats why I did it. He dint push me and I'm warning you that DO NOT LET THE GUY PUSH YOU. Let this be your own decision. According to me its not bad even if you are not married but Indians beliefs might be different from ours.
Dont use your heart in this kind of decision...use your head.
Enjoy your trip.
2006-07-19 23:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Leshambiye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a mistake to have sex before marriage
It says to wait until married in the bible
it is a sacred thing to wait until married
God bless you
2006-07-19 22:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concered - without trying to be patronising - If your asking, your not ready. Age doesn't really come into it but if your not ready - don't do it, and if he truly loves you he will wait.
Hope you will be ok, but NEVER do anything you don't want to. And if you do want to do it, make sure it's becasue you feel it's right, do not think if you don't do it you might lose him. If he's like that you'll lose him anyway.
Good Luck
D*
2006-07-19 23:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT sounds like u r not sure that u should and that is enough.u shouldnt besides u wont be the first or the last sounds to me like he does this kind of thing a lot....dont do it
2006-07-19 23:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wud be the biggest fool if u do such non-sence act
plz have ur body for ur husband atleast
coz i know very lesss no. of people marry after having an affair
2006-07-19 22:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by miths 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey cute girlie :) Read my answer to your question does it pains the first time you have sex?
2006-07-19 23:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by magicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love each other and don't plan on seeing anyone else than go for it.
2006-07-19 23:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the others be happy.
2006-07-19 23:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by Saif U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋