2006-07-19 22:26:15 · 15 answers · asked by Shay G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no, u raised her up to be what she is. show some disipline. y do u think God created you to be her mum?
2006-07-19 22:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by cman007859 1 · 8⤊ 3⤋
Yes I would accept her just as she is. She is your daughter and she is going to grow up an move out someday. You want to stay in touch and be "happy" to see each other with out the tensions of trying to change her. She is her own person by herself. And if she has told you at this young age. You have raised a very self confident girl which should get her a step ahead in the world today.
2006-07-19 22:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is not something you can encourage or discourage -it's not a personal 'choice' just as being straight isn't chosen - you just are. A lot of kids have doubts at that age but if she's sure she's gay then you have to accept it and support her.
2006-07-19 22:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Berri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a question of encouraging her but rather supporting her so there is somewhere that she can feel safe and be loved for who she its going to be hard enough for her out in the world as it is. She'll need somewhere to come home to, its good that she was able to tell you and isnt sneaking/lieing to you. Respect her for that as it must have taken a lot of courage to do so take care =)
2006-07-19 22:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by corinna g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Gay is still not socially acceptable in most part of the world. She is young so you should try to make her understand the consequences which she would face.
2006-07-19 22:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by madan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to encourage it but you should be supporting of her decision, it is after all her life and at least by supporting it she will have someone caring to talk to if a relationship breaks down.
2006-07-19 22:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by barhud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her. Be her support system, no matter what she decides. If she truly is gay, life is going to be fairly tough on her. Let her know you'll always be there. If she's just going through a phase, then she'll outgrow it.
2006-07-19 22:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't 15 year old is too young to decide is she's gay or straight?
i suggest bring her to a psychology help, probably she's in trouble or something.
2006-07-19 22:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by shanghai68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is young and you should make sure she is wise, my girlfriend parents are gay(lesbians) and they can be nuts at times. treat her like you would if she was striaght, but be careful for drama that might come her way, because girl that were gay at my school when i was young bitched, excuse my language. but they loved dramma and proven to be worse than guys.
2006-07-19 22:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by maticulously_happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has already chosen her own path; don't place obstacles in it, support her, advise her and love her.
2006-07-19 22:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ken W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id let it go. dont encourage it, but let her know that you dont hate her for it. she may just be trying to get attention.
2006-07-19 22:30:37 · answer #11 · answered by cmil8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋