is she cheating?

Question

how do you know or find out if a love one is cheating on you. i mean is there any clues on how she is with you, or what she says or whos she with?

Answer 1

It's quite easy to find out if a partner is cheating but if they know how to cover their tracks it'll be difficult to find out if they are doing so. If you know your girlfriend that well try and look or monitor her attitude towards you, like for instance does she get irritated easily with you, does she give you one excuse after another if you want to do something with her and so forth.

Doing that off course will drive you crazy because sometimes she might have a genuine reason for saying no to you for something so the safest and honest way is to tell her not ask (if you ask she'll feel offended) that you suspect that she's having an affair and just talk it out like two adults, if she throws tantrums and becomes very defensive then she might be having an affair. If she's a reasonable person and she's not having an affair she'll kiss you and reassure you that she's not. Good luck and I hope you resolve the problem.

Answer 2

honestly if you have a feeling she is. She might be, no one knows her better than you. But a good trick would be something like this. Bring up a topic or comment on something it could be anything. But it has to be something you never told her before just something basic, and depending on her answer you will know right away. For example If she answers you back with a " oh yeah" "yeah I remember", type of answer. You will know then that she is cheating, that she does not want to mess up so answering with a yes will always work. But if she jumps right away with a "When did I say that? or when did that happen? then she might not be cheating. LOL honestly if she is cheating their conversations might get so intense that it would get to thepoint that she wont remember who said what to her. If it was you or her lover is funny but sad. Good luck to you

Answer 3

It's hard for a person to find out if their partner is cheating. But it is also hard for the cheater to keep up a "normal" relationship. Look out and think about if she is still attracted to you, or if she just uses you for things. If you find out a way to keep a woman attracted to you, you will never have to worry about this. But being sneaky and spying on her will do the relationship just as much damage as cheating does!

Answer 4

well how often do you see her? has she ever lied to you about anything? i think time it can be all notions, i thought my fella was being unfateful but i soon realised it was me who had the problem, if your gf gives you a reason not to trust her thats when you should start asking questions. you will no yousel the way she is with you if she wants you or not but remember women say stuff they con't mean just ask her out straight im sure everthing is fine bset of luck

Answer 5

Honestly just ask her! And if that doesn't work them do a little detective work, look at her phone calls and check on her when she is going out with friends, make sure she is were she says and with the people she says!

Answer 6

When a guy likes me and I dont want to talk to him I ignore him, look for some signs where she doesnt want to spend as much time with you as she used too, or always do the dirty work.

Answer 7

Most people cheat on each other now days, so she prob is cheating!!
Sorry to put a downer on you.

Answer 8

90 per cent shel cheat

Answer 9

If she gives you a reason to think she is cheating,then usually she is.

Answer 10

if shes short with you, doesnt really wanna fight anymore, more bitter towards you.

you seem to annoy her,

heres another weird tip, if shes suddenly really xtra nice to you for no reason, (as if feeling guilty)

check her phone bill