2006-07-19 21:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by ♡ Choc ♡ 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hi! Just a little suggestion from my past experience....If you would like, you do things such as; going out of your comfort zone and socialise with other people by signing up with the community clubs. Besides, you can take up some courses like social dance, line dance, culinary classes, singing class, music lessons, etc. and/or participate in various short trips organised by them. Otherwise you may try and contact a friend to take you along for some social gatherings and events should there be any. Other than that, you may consider doing something like these in your own private time eg: surfing internet, net chatting, sign up for some e-zine or e-books to read & enrich yourself, go and visit libraries for some books to read or borrow, attend different kinds of seminars & talks like eg: self-improvement seminars, motivation speech, etc. or sign up with the "Toastmaster's" Club. And, if you are a Christian then be actively involved in the church fellowships and activities. Besides all of the above, you may also consider taking part in the charitable voluntary services by contacting the charitable organisation or service centre you intended to contribute your time & effort to. Alternatively, you may even consider converting your loneliness into money by taking up a part-time or freelance job, do a home-based work, make some handicraft and sell them if you are good at it, sub-contract some book-keeping & accounting jobs from small businesses and hawkers, sign up with an MLM business, etc. Otherwise, you may consider spending more time with your parents, siblings, friends, etc. And lastly, find a life-time partner and settle down for good. Just a little suggestion. Hope the above is helpful....
2006-07-20 04:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by lim g 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have never felt lonely in my life, but I do feel depressed around other people.
Go figure. I don't think everyone feels loneliness. I have never experienced. It exists for me only as a theory.
2006-07-20 05:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lexical 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up some simple task like reading, listening to light music, doing jigsaaw puzzle etc. You should have a list of hobbies that you may like to do. If you really dun have any, you can send IM to your friends in yahoo.
2006-07-20 08:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read nice books , do some house hold chores , take up some hobby ,chat on net...........there are nmany options. I'm really an extrovert person . but i do love being alone somtime everyday . can we say , i'm comfortable with myself? I'm happy to be with me and me only when i feel like that.
2006-07-20 06:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always find something to do....watch a movie, listen to music, read a good book, have some frens over, chat up with family members.
i always call n talk to my mom or dad when i find myself in such situations. that really clears my loneliness somehow ;)
2006-07-20 04:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by MeGotBalls™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u can play online games.. Some online gaming which u can also know friends & talk to them while playing..
2006-07-20 05:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can call some friends to your home, listen to the radio,talk with people on line. hope this can help you
2006-07-20 04:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by three cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur not alone, ur gut feeling is not alone, dny worry swty just talk to some one who understands you, u'l b ok, x
2006-07-20 04:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on those things that would trigger your excitement
2006-07-20 04:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself active and find what your interests are in things or people. socialize and mingle.
2006-07-20 04:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋