We have fallen for each other head over heals in the last month. We have come to the realization that we both love each other dearly. We told each other tonight that we love each other. The problem lies in the fact that she is still with her current boyfriend. They are not working out currently, but my worry is that she will feal bad for him and just dump me off on the road. I told her that I support her on any decision she makes, but deep inside I want her to go for me. So, what should I do to ensure that she is gonna end up with me in the end? She talks about how they aren't working out but I am just concerned that with her being so comfortable with him she will just stick with him. So is there a way to know if she will go for me? She has expressed deep deep emotions for me. I am just scared, so any insight would be greatly appreciated.
2006-07-19 21:23:27 · 9 answers · asked by skoty99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All the way, dude. But always remember: if she can do it to him, she can do it to you.
2006-07-19 21:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so in love, why is she still with him in the first place. It seems to me that she would've broken up with him a long time ago if she was so into you. Like maybe before she decided to actually cheat with you. If she did it to him, there's always the chance that she'll do it to you. But if you're sure you want to pursue this, and you're sure that she's over him (because I do know girls who won't break up with a guy just to prevent hurt feelings), let her know that you won't share her with him any more. Make sure she knows that you love her, but she needs to make her decision and stick to it. Just remember that if she cheated on him, nothing's stopping her from doing it to you. Good luck with whatever you decide, and I hope you don't get hurt. Emotionally or physically, since you're taking someone's girl right now.
2006-07-20 04:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by x_chynadoll814_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a fool. If she is cheating on someone with you, what makes you think that she wont do the same while shes with you? They always do. I bet she expressed deep feelings for your friend also when she was fooling around with him, and cheating on some other guy.
2006-07-20 04:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she says she loves you and she's sleeping with this dude
than she is cheating on you too.
I say she either needs to make a decision right now
or at the very least seperate from her boyfrined for now
but even if she does choose you, How will you EVER be sure
she's not seeing someone else as soon as a problem arises
in your relationship
2006-07-20 04:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jxsxn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater...always a cheater... Shes using you for an emotional tampon, to absorb what the other a$$hole wont...If shes still with him you shouldnt be asking this question...
2006-07-20 04:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by A. Grigs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. you just gotta keep yourself in a good state of mind and look after yourself. treat yourself good...
it's a nightmarish situation - i know what you are going tru.
she has to make up her mind. but non the less you have to look after yourself because if you just hang in there and wait life will be hell....
2006-07-20 04:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says she loves you but still hasn't left her boyfriend something is wrong! you can't do anything to make sure she picks you it's her decision alone and she needs to make it fast. i feel for you because i think she's stringing you along. good luck!
2006-07-20 04:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be very careful with her coz she still likes him and some attribute of his might over ride your attributes. but be careful of her as she might be playing her sex desires with you which she might not be getting from him at this moment........
so don't you fall for her until she dumps her ex............
goodluck
2006-07-20 04:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by mobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a smart guy leave her right now...........coz
Once a cheater...always a cheater...
2006-07-20 04:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by question bank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋