Female Input Needed?

Question

There is a hot girl at work that has been heavily flirting with me for some time. I found out from others that she doesn't have a boyfriend. She even told me that she was bored on the weekends because she had nothing to do. I also noticed that she was not flirting with any of the other guys. She would park her car by mine every day so we always walked out together. The other day I asked her out and she gave a lame excuse about maybe being busy. So, I asked her for her number and she said she would have to think about it. Since then, she avoids me and she parks her car on the other side of the lot. What gives? I will add that I am not stalking her or acting wierd. I simply asked her out. I have other girls I hang out with so this is no big deal, but I would like some female insight on why girls do stuff like this. Thanks

Answer 1

it sounds like she wants to call the shots. send her an e-mail at work or strike up a conversation with her in the break room. keep the conversation casual, make her laugh. just wait...maybe she will ask you out for drinks.

Answer 2

Sometimes girls will be flirty, and really forward, then when it comes down to crunch time, the actual relationship part, girls get scared. Ecspecially if she's had a boyfriend before, or if shes ever had her heart broken. She may not want to settle down because she is afraid of what the oucome will be. Maybe just slowly ease into a relationship, let her know that you are serious and you arent gonna bug out on her, she'll feel more comfortable....but then again, what do I know? Im only 14!

Answer 3

You know, this is the type of woman who gives the rest of us a bad name. Probably she just wanted to flirt and didn't think you would act on it, but then you took it to the next logical step and she freaked out. I am always amazed when woman are pissed because the guys they flirt with want to go out with them. You're better off without her, because she is clearly into games.

Answer 4

Steer clear of her, she is into games. She is the type that once she knows she could have you she drops you like a hot potato.
The girl is very insecure, and has a low self-esteem. She was just playing you. Be glad you didn't get involved with her further, you really would of felt crazy!

Answer 5

I think she is a bit off. Flirting heavily and then don't want to go out. What's with her? Forget about her and ask someone else out.

Answer 6

Um, to be really honest about this, it's really all a matter of ego and the sense of achievement you get from finally hooking the boy at the end. Then it usually gets to a point where we don't really want to commit yet but couldn't help ourselves from working you up and testing our feminine powers. But I could be wrong and she might have other reasons. You might want to confront her about this if you really want to get to know her better. I hope this was helpful. Good luck.

Answer 7

maybe she just simply wanted to be your friend....Maybe the way you asked her out had something to do with her change of heart...
Girls are very intuisive if she got a bad vibe thats what probably caused it, or perhaps a third party input by a jealous competitor...

Answer 8

Maybe she's just jealous, or she has some problems of her own that forbids her from seeing you/getting too interested in you. Or maybe she derives delight in leading you on and ditching you.
Oh, to cut the speculation, just ask her aye?

Answer 9

Maybe she was into and wanted it to be just casual flirting at work. You might have went to far and made her feel uncomfortable. or maybe she just had a change of heart

Answer 10

She feels u r tryin 2 hav 1 nightstand. & she aint ready for it.dat is a reason shedint giv u da #.