we been 2-gether for lamost 4 yrs.... I am almost 22 in Nov.
2006-07-19 20:58:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
This is a decision that you have to make based on what you want. If you want a big wedding, or even a small but elaborate one, you should wait. You don't want to get stressed out or anything. In fact if the program tends to keep you very busy or stressed out - you should wait.
But if you want a small/simple wedding, or you want to get married sooner you should go for it now. Don't listen to people who say you're too young or that you're not ready - they don't know you!! They are trying to help but they are speaking from their own experience and yours is different. If you are ready for marriage now, that is good enough reason.
I don't think there is a general answer to questions like this. It really is on a case by case basis. Good luck with your decision.
2006-07-20 04:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
you never know what'll happen later in life, if you have the opportunity, you should get your education. four years is not that long a time to be with someone, especially when you're only 22. if you love each other what's another few years. marriage is just a piece of paper.
finish school and then get married.
2006-07-20 04:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all have you thought this all out...?? being boyfriend and girlfriend is a lot different than being responsible for each other plus the chance of having children at in opportune moments rise by 50%...What does your boyfriend do for a living..what do you want to do..?? Can you each pay for yourselves or does mommy and daddy still have to help??? Getting married carries big responsibilities other than just being in love..Don't just be in love be responsible!!
2006-07-20 04:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by all means finish. wether if u get married or wait. the bottomline is to finish it.so if u feel like getting married and in love and all then go 4 it. just use protection u dont need a kid to slow u down. so both are good with me. once ur done u can have ur fam and good career. so good luck
2006-07-20 04:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish it before u get married. why, u r just 22!!!
life is beautiful and if he is the one for u then a couple months waiting wont hurt.
getting married adds more commitments and responsibilities. unless u think u can handle them (logically thinking), u'd better save it for later.
2006-07-20 04:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by May FL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, that way you can focus on the two of you more. And you won't have to work everything around your schedule.
2006-07-20 04:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋